Why are some people stuck in their STORY?

People who have no control over their thoughts tell a sad story to attract other people.The story never changes and the main theme is the ego low self-esteem  and "why me" repeats over and over like a badge of honor.Help me give to me the begging is really not the aim they want your attention and takes you away from your own purposes.They will flatter your ego and tell you are wonderful and not listen to your advice even though they say they need your advice.The state of mind is the victim consciousness and they will not listening to you or stop repeating the same story to you again and again.This is a type of insanity and can be a mental illness or a codependency in all relationships.Through the years in my radio work and cable shows I have seen and heard the cries of the victim.I am getting wisdom in my years of practice dealing with the victim of their own thoughts of their conditions they created.They are in shock and surprised when I tell them th\ey are alright and help themselves.Nobody can change anyone else was first lesson to break  me trying to help people that want to control me by making a codependent relationship.As a psychic and a Christian, this has always brought both types of people that need help I knew when I took the label psychic my calling was by God and didn't resist helping those in the occult and many religions. I have never given up my trust in God to guide me to love everyone where they are on their journey.One of my clients is a Buddhist and I have talked to her on the air and in private for over a year.Tonight she called and I took her call and it was the same whining voice of the victim.She worships an idol and this is her life.She has listened to my words many times about God and knows where I stand.I told her many times she needed God and to think of herself as worthy of God's love.She agrees and still the victim remain intact.After one year she has kept the same story and is stuck and even though I give her advice she does not receive the messages of love God gives me for her.She goes on all the psychic shows on blog talk radio telling her same story and the psychic's say they are sorry.She is being feed sorrow and needs this to survive.She finally pays me a 20.00 dollars donation after a year of reading in private.I knew this was not necessary and I thought maybe this may change her because she might think My advice may be worth something this time.She thought it meant she could call me every day and get a reading on my show.She wanted to own me and take others off the show because she needed help.Selfish self ego-centered as she spoke to me on the phone when I told her others needed help at this time of the year.This is insanity and not realistic she is a vampire and wants all of the attention.I told her that she needed a psychic or someone that worships idols because  I am a Christian.In all of my 30 years, I have talk to many people about my faith and they know that is who I am in Christ because I used the gifts of the Holy Spirit to do my readings.I think the world has changed since I started in 1980's on  the radio.It seems that there is a division between religion and spirituality and that's another paper for me to write.