WHEN YOUR FIRST LOVER LOVES ANOTHER.

We all a first love and the last love and they are one in the same.Love is God and God is forever.When God joins those together the vows of the spiritual remain forever.Even the death do us part can't break the spiritual bonds.The body is the death, not the spirit.The is always seeking closure in spirit there is no ending or beginning there is God and love is present.Can we love more than one lover? It will not be the same as the first love even though as humans try their best to replace the love of the first lover it remains.We remember that first kiss and the first sexually encounter and the memories are there in our thoughts when we choose someone new into our life.We try not to compare each relationship  with the first one but, we do it every time.This the first is not fair to ourselves or the new person is it?Let's think out of the box about this conditional love we hang on in our logical reasoning.First does it work to compare to help us make a choice?What are we comparing the love of the first love to? The new person can't offer the same first love because they are the second or third or fourth in some cases.What are we looking for in a relationship the second or third time?This may be why many people set conditions to heal something the first didn't offer.It is not the love in most cases it is companionship or just a person to take you out for a date.What are you real intentions you need to focus on with your second time after your first love has left you for another?You might think you need to a checklist of all the things you want after the first lover has left you.Is this conditional love or unconditional love?We just want to belong and fit in with the world and go through the motions on auto-pilot and not even care just have someone to call our own.Can this be a codependency and love are in your thoughts and you are running the program for the relationship? Yes, we do want for the need to be not loved but, just for the sake of filling a gap in our mind, we have someone even if they are not that someone we love.

The free-will spiritual journey that we choose is  love and to give love unconditional to all we meet.We travel down our path and seek God's kingdom within that is the love.We are told in the word to love one another as we love ourselves.We do love ourselves when we are being loved by someone.When we are rejected in the love we give we stop loving ourselves.We are to love even though the love we give is not received.We can't give from an empty well.The living waters of the flow of love need to remain to in you to give and receive all love.Your first lover is the love you need remember to bring back your  unconditional love to a second love.As we do our forgivingness for the things that happened in our past and the forgivingness of ourselves we can go forward.We must remember it is not the same and never will be the first love we had.It may offer something we need to grow spiritual and this is part of our life's story.

My own story is written in the books of the recording angel and so is yours.All children of God loved God before they came to this planet.This the first love we all knew.We have sought for that love in every relationship and didn't even know it.A love only God the father had for us in the beginning and will last till the end.God is the first and last love we all are seeking.Every human has a desire for God's love and seeks it in everyone they meet.The man is the head of Christ in the family and woman is is the helper of the man.We obey God and this is why we obey and this word was in the marriage vows.A woman obeys her husband and helps the man and this is to be equally yoke in God's love. When the world stops obeying God and turned from the love that the father was giving to His children the world left the kingdom within.We have all left God's love and turned to conditional love.This is the reason we have chaos and not order in the world today.The children have tasted the fruits of the world and they were bitter.God's message to all that can read and this paper this day 2015 end of a year of the awakening of the inner child.Please bring your unconditional love into your heart and share God's first love with all you meet.