MEMORIES ARE OUR CONNECTION TO THE DEAD.

DEAR BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN CHRIST,

I have entitled this paper "Memories are our connection to the dead" I used that word "dead"  because many humans on our planet still have a fear of death and dying.Even the most spiritually connected people who believe in God have problems with handling the thoughts of death and dying.Thoughts and emotions are the two energies of the memories.As we go through the flow of our daily lives we are processing thoughts and our emotions in a direct way or indirect way. We know we are going to die because we are very logical about the facts of the human body.But when it comes the very existence of a spirit within the body we as humans still struggle with this perception.This one element of the unseen state of belief's system creates fears of separation more than any other conscious state.This is the "victim consciousness" and the judgement seat of the soul. The confusion of the soul and the spirit also causes fears in this state of consciousness and they come from the outside world.We know that our Faith is strong as we were told about that mustard seed of faith in us but, something else becomes stronger and it is in our memories waiting to be recovered by us or someone else who has wisdom from God.We need an observer from the outside to be objected with our fears of death more than any other state of being.Humans that have overcome their fears on many subjects but 'dead and dying"both remain the number one obstacle to making the complete transition to the transformation of their spiritual life on Earth.Heaven on Earth and kingdom within  are the two perceptions  we struggled with as believers because we have been told many lies about both of these subjects and formed our own reality around  these belief's.The memories of our first hearing God's word as a child were the milk of the word as it is called by many preachers it may be the only memory many have and it doesn't feed the spirit completely.The meat of the scriptures is the next step many have taken the step and put that in their memory.As these to steps do help the spiritual growth to some degree they are constantly being bombarded by world views in the memories.Faith is hearing  the word of God and the hearing of the world is louder and heard more than the word of God.So the Faith changes and memories changes with words of disappointments and the failure to be who we can become in spirit.More attention is on the outside world than the inner spirit world.We start trusting others beliefs and opinions more than ourselves and God.These become our memories and our reality has changed and trust is gone or hidden by repressing the truth that is in us is waiting to be revealed by us or someone from the outside who can be objective and non-emotional with us.

I am a medium and that means I can connect with the memories of the living spirits.To me, all is living whether in the body or out of the body.The word death to me has never meant separation to me. Even as a small child when someone passed or crossover into the light I was still in contact in spirit through memories I still feel no emotions of loss because the connections I made to every human are spiritual connections.I now that every person  I meet will always be with me in that memory of my spiritual connections I made with each one of them.People always talk about missing other people when they die or having seen them for periods of time.I can honestly say I don' feel this missing or separation in my memory spiritual connections.I think about people as spirits more than physical bodies. I feel their energy and hear their memories when I talk to them or hear them on the phone.I remember so many things about myself and know my own memories so well so when I am listening to their memories I know it is their memories and not mine that I am observing.The memories of the love-ones they think have passed or die are very strong and connected with their emotions and the are living in them and these memories are alive.These memories are the expression of the love that person gave while on the Earth and continue to remain alive in the holder of that love we had for that person.It is not the body it is the spiritual connections that remain with us.When a medium taps into the subconscious mind when someone request a reading or contact with a spirit of someone you need a message from this is done by using the memories that you have in your thoughts.Are there new memories added? The memories are the ones transfer at the moment of separation of the body to spirit.The connection in spirit by the spirit is made for purposes of helping the grieving process.This is not closure as many people think but a type of understanding which can bring some closure to emotions of the grieving process.Memories are not the use of bringing the dead alive or getting a message about our life.Many mediums have used this as a way to use their other psychic talents to do a reading to give insights into the grieving client at that time on their journey.You, see this is a step to helping further their understanding of the things they are stopping because of the grief  not really consulting the dead for new information on how to live their life in the now.This has been the downfall of many mediums in their calling or work to bring some peace and love back to the feelings of loss in the physical separation.A good medium explains and teaches that the spirit remains with us and we can make contact by ourselves.  I have conducted many sessions with clients that needed information from their loved ones over the years and the memories are very useful to is healing of the emotions of the loss they feel.Sometimes just talking about the separation really helps us.What actually occurs in a session is to bring awareness to the conscious mind that spirit remains and death is an illusion only the body dies.