Why can't just all live in peace and harmony with our brothers and sisters on this planet?We are all controllers to some degree because we want or need control to of our own self and if we lose that control we control others.There are some humans capable of independent self-control thoughts and can control themselves and try to control others if they are allowed to do so by the controller.The free will of they own self-awareness of who they are is not given to the other humans they are controlling.They are the victim and they create victims the controlling factor is co-dependence.Both needs are being met by the same victim consciousness and the mental, physical and wholeness of each are affected by the low self-esteem in both.The abusive conditions of the controlling come from both humans involved in this type of relationship.When either party in this type of relationship awakens in the spiritual senses the emotions come outward in a fight for life itself. The bonds and chains of this master-slave agreement can cause either the main controller to fall or the slave to fall. In most cases the slave will fall and seek freedom or stay in the relationship and turn the tables with resistance to the main controller with anger or revenge.This is a type of controller that has lost control over their own self through years of allowing control.There is saying"Revenge have no fury like a woman scorned" and this is the revenge and hate coming from the persons be it a woman or man that has free will been taken from them and the battle is really controlling. The will to fight is indeed a battle we all take on in this world of control we can be passive with the fight or aggressive with our actions.Picking the battles you can win is the wisdom we all need to hear about instead we hear we should fight for our rights for freedom at all cost.We have all heard this saying,"You can't fight city hall" and we know we all have fought government and the controls for our freedoms.Can we understand relationships with others is a complex battle of the two free wills of each?The wise man
or the wise woman who has fought and lost the battle of the sexes knows that pitfalls and factors of a relationship are to compromise and the flow is important to keep any relationship balanced.
We are having a spiritual experience in a physical world.We take each lesson that comes to us into our awareness and use all that we have learned to help us not repeat old patterns of behaviors that don't serve our own spiritual journey. I have been controlled and I allowed it.The battle was lasted 22 years and ended very gracefully on my part as I left without a struggle and my self-esteem was gone to some degree.Somewhere in my core of beliefs was a tiny glimmer of spiritual strength to come out of the battle.In each child of God, there is hope even if Faith in your fellow man has been deleted from your reality.I have been a victim of control and also a controller for my survival.Both experiences did bring independent thought to my experience I am sharing with you today.It seems we are all in this battle of spiritual thoughts from the very beginning.Not the good or bad or the right or the wrong but the very core of our true self-beliefs.We do conquer this battle because of the seeking of our freedom to think on our own and not allow control from others to rule us.
If there was one human on the Earth and no other human what would happen with control?The movie Tom Hanks did was called "Casts Away" brings out the battle of the thoughts within the human mind.Alone in his own thoughts, he needs to bring order to his outside world and also does some completive thoughts on the inner world.When a human does the inner thoughts the control becomes a battle within the agreement of the ego and the true and false self.This is a controlling factor we all deal within our own reality.In the movie, he finds a volleyball in a package from the plane wreck and
gives it a personality and calls the ball Wilson.This seems to give the actor some security to share his thoughts with.As the story progresses Wilson and Tom Hanks have many conversations based on the thought within Tom Hanks own consciousness. The controller is Tom and the ball is the victim of the thoughts of Tom.When the ball gets lost or doesn't do what Tom wants or needs it to do Tom gets angry or confused because he knows the ball doesn't think for itself.Humans do the same with other humans they choose to control they expected resistance or some independent thought of the freedom in their victim and when they don't get what they expect they leave the relationship because the battle is lost.Tom Hanks needed the ball to balance his own ego thoughts and much like people need someone outside of them to make them whole.This is not a reality of the true self because the truth is that each human is completely whole within without outside controls from other people. A day will come when each human achieves wholeness and balance spiritually and the parts of the grand plan will be brought together in one accord Today is that day in my reality.
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