HOW CAN WE WASTE TIME?

THE SONG "TIME IS ON MY SIDE" BY THE ROLLING STONES MAKES IT VERY CLEAR TIME CAN BE MANAGED IF SO CHOSEN ON A CONSCIOUS LEVEL.

Putting time in the proper perception seem to be the problem many left brain dominant humans have as they make demands on the controls over their life.Many humans live in the past and can't let go of unwanted memory that causes them grief and depression due to a time factor in their left brain they have always observed.They think the keeping of their childhood memories alive they can still be with their loved ones that have passed away.They even take on the persona of the mother or father that has died and live for them vicariously and acting in a manner much like the loved one.They are always escaping real time in the present.When talking about their life they included reference to a person who died many years ago as still with them and they don't just mean spiritually. They said things like  "I am my mother" or she lives through me.This is a condition of the co-dependency that was set up in their childhood.The thoughts of being "lost in time" seem to be the problem and the attachments to hold the dead person is their life is their only reason for living.It as if their life ending when the loved one die and they think time has stopped on their timeline.They grieve more than they create new things as they follow the old path when the loved one was on Earth with them.They even do the same things like setting up their lives like the dead person would do.One example I found was a man who was in a co-dependency with his mother who had been married five times and disliked all the men she married and used them to take care of her needs and no sex was part of the deal.So when she die her son told everyone he was going to release his soul for her soul and allow her to live through him.He divorced a 22-year marriage and started living as if he was his mother.He married with one thing in mind to carry out the same lifestyle of his mother.He met and married 5 women and used them for co-dependency to take care of his needs and no sex.He was determined to keep her alive in his mind and live out her traits of using women like she used men.Time was lost in his own life and what he needed to accomplish with his own soul.

We all get "lost in time" and the reasons are only know to the soul that chooses to do what they think they need to do.Some just wander in the world without direction and purpose and ask for help but don't receive it.While others take the road of least resistance and don't speak up or cause anything to happen good or bad in their lives.Many choose to let others write their story and end up at a dead end with nobody to blame but themselves.Many know they are wasting time and still stay in a relationship that is abusive because their fears are more powerful than their courage. Some work in jobs they hate and complain every day and don't know they are wasted time and creating stress.We have all done these things and we may have needed the lessons for spiritual growth but at some point on the journey we woke up and said,"no"  I am worthy of a life that is full of love and  I can change right now in this present moment because  I want to just do it!