RELATING WITH COMMUNICATION

Can we talk, can we communicate, can we ask direct questions, can we express our spiritual divinity? Are we relating to others through our own relationship to ourselves? How can we be more effective with ourselves and others with our conversations? Do we hear our own thoughts?Do we listen to ourselves?Are we always asking questions about our future?Do we know who we are and what is our purpose?Can we say no? Do we set intentions with our thoughts? Are we in the present moment or going back into our past and seeking only the future?

Relating means coming to some kind of agreement of the subject and finding a common ground to create understanding.The questions are direct and formed in our own thoughts and beliefs and we have a firm opinion of what we want or need to relate to others in our communications. A conversation contains words of love and kindness when we express our divinity of the spiritual life we have chosen.Observing the present moment and remaining on the problem in the present and addressing the problem will make a helpful discussion about the solution in a relationship to ourselves and others.Communication is a flow of ideas and energy transference between to people who are relating by brainstorming or talking about a resolution bringing attention to a conflict of the problem which is the main reason for the question in the first place.Conversation and the word converted have the same meaning to some people.They think they need to convert others into they way of thinking by telling others that their way is the right way to solve all problems.So in a conversation, they push their agenda and don't allow a free flow of ideas because they want to win at all cost to show they are better or higher in thoughts than the person they are talking to.They are not communicating they are talking to hear themselves talk or their ego is being fed by over talking and not relating to themselves or anyone else.Humans have a need to relate to themselves and others but have not been taught the art of conversation and how to communicate their own thoughts to others for centuries and this last generation is using texting and voicemails with cute smiley faces with no substance and meaning.Without substance, there is not truth to the messages and confusion and chaos are taking over our world. We don't ask Why or what in fear we will be rejected or lose a connection with someone, in reality, there is not connection when we have not asked direct questions we are lost already.The disconnected world thinks they are connected to some source in their imagination they created and that source will do the work for them.Many times they go to sources outside of themselves and ask about the future and don't ask themselves why am  I asking about the future when my present situation is my problem. My problem is my partner is not communicating with me. Question to yourself is "Are you communicating with your partner or you just having a conversation and trying to convert your partner to your way of doing something?" This is not communication this telling someone how you prefer they should do something.Are you talking to yourself more than you are listening to others? It is good to listening to yourself and others and communicate not just tell others what your are feeling.In a communication, certain rules must be followed to keep feelings from getting too emotional and bringing drama taking over between to people.We tend to create drama by taking everything personal and this shuts down communication.When your feelings are being expressed take a breath and step back and push your emotions to the side and ask yourself a question about your own emotions.Why do  I get upset when my partner does this or that? How can  I be more understanding and handle my own emotions? Every time you get emotional about your life's problems you need to take time and ask yourself your own questions.Where are these feelings coming from and why am I triggered by certain images or music or when someone says something I don't agree with? All these questions can be answered by you.You know who you are and nobody outside of you knows the real you.

Using the whole brain can help everyone on this planet to ask questions and get answers inside of themselves. This is how whole brain thinking will save the future.The present moment is now and the balancing of the right side and the left side of the brain can create your future. You can change anyone else but you can change your own thinking.When you work on yourself your world becomes who you are on the inside and people will notice the change in you.You think about things with new perception and your emotions are under control by your logic.You will find out that your reality is to be the spiritual person you were designed to be is a whole brain thinker.

Love on the whole brain
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