Dear children of curiosity,
The brain did not evolve to enable consciousness our brains evolved consciously as a resulted of our experiences. The more we process using our whole brain the more we grow in our body, mind, and spirit.We all seek a purpose of everything we do and say but finding a purpose may be in each experience we co-create or allow to happen as we become enlightened in each conscious state we endure.The events, people, and places and feelings we bring into our awareness every moment serves as purposes in and of themselves and not only as personal growth.When our thought energies are directed into a field of possibilities of the all divine manifestation we create the thought. When we use our thoughts to co-create with creation the through process enters the collective consciousness of all minds.We believe what we think and we receive what we think to be true for ourselves first and this focusing is important to all manifestations.
There are two brains connected by a central processing center between the two halves in laymen's terms.You can look at the picture for more in-depth meaning. Both brains are separated but connected to the center processor. The right brain is the creative and intuitive and imagination processor.The left brain makes logical sense out of the images sent by the right brain by adding words of logic to the all perceived in the fantasy of the right brain.Both brains can work together if training is provided or allowance and willingness can occur in the belief systems that not all that is imagined is not reality.Beliefs may vary in every society from superstitions to myths to gods and creatures to conspiracies depending on the lack of education or religious involvement.The right brain dominant persons will have such beliefs in their reality and have become dependent on using these images without knowing why because their reasoning in their left brain has not been activated and therefore they live in a world of fantasy.They can be taught about logical reasoning through educational means and change their beliefs in the unknown and stop creating fears of the unknown of the dilutions of the right brain thinking.Be of one brain and not using both presents many problems be it left brain or right brain. Balancing the two brains is needed to create inner harmony and the battle of doubts and disbelief. When only one brain is working on a problem we need to find our own solutions internally and stop going outwardly for help making us co-dependent on another person's brain for answers.
Getting a clear understanding of the which brain a person is using can help form better relationshipsWhole brain thinkers shift in their brain usage and can change from creative to logical in seconds.This a process called discernment and is by many in higher education.This helps the person do internal spiritual growth and wellness of their own self-awareness of their consciousness and help other people outside of themselves to process their information.Because many people in our society have a strong tenancy to assume a conscious purpose of agents of evil intent to be behind every event in their lives the fears in the right brain are running rampant.There is a need for left brain logical reasoning to explain the right brain by a whole brain thinker.The shifts in the consciousness were not only dimensional but thought processing was also affected. When we are looking for cause and effect in every situation The cause may be internal, not external like most people think and a processing of the big picture may take both brains.
It is good to be creative and use your right brain but use it properly by sending the information from the intuitions to the left brain for reasoning, not doubt. Psychic awareness and development of our gifts and talents so we are able to use them in a way we can help ourselves first through our own experiences and give to others from what we have learned.
When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child, When I became a man/woman I gave up childish ways.
1cor:13-11
Dear inner child,
The best lessons come from our experiences in our childhood.All our feelings, desires and emotions are attached to childhood drama and trauma and memories of abuses in our subconsciousness mind. Many people repress their childhood memories because of they don't want to remember and others keep the memories alive in their adult life. And then there are the ones that need to understand and to become aware of the emotional problems in their adult life who are now doing the discovering answers with their inner child work. Some of the memories are suppressed on purpose by the adult child and a deep in the subconsciousness and make take longer to release to the conscious mind.The way to bring awareness to your own inner child's memories is to think about your experiences you had as a child.You might ask yourself "was I abandon and left alone to take care of myself by my caretaker? " If this is an experience that happened to you might be relationships issues of feeling you need someone to complete you.Your inner child needs support to make choices and control your life.Co-dependency is a hard fact of life to break and is in most inner children's experiences.Many people who are still seeking a co-decency relationship with others will take everything in a personal manner and become offended when their needs are met.Their child is suffering and wants comfort from others outside of themselves.They go from one relationship to another because their needs are more important than the person they are trying to relate to can't fill their expectation of their inner child.They end up sitting alone and thinking nobody loves them if they get someone to take care of them like a parent.We find the mama boys and the daddy's little girl in these groups.They have are always crying and going inward for security that was given by the parent that didn't give unconditional love or the parent that gave abuses love and their inner child wants their partner to be just like the type of love their parent gave them. The worse thing the partner can do is to become the parent for them because this will cause them not to cope and make choices on their own and they develop another co-dependency with you. Every relationship means both parties must relate to each other as adults.When we think about being equally yoked in a relationship with other adults in a workplace or living with someone there has to be agreement and respect for everyone's personal space and honoring free will of each is a priority.No adult needs to be told what to do by another adult.The best way to talk to another adult is to be an adult yourself.Allowing other adults to think for themselves and make their own choices and stop judging them. When one person rules over another person and controls them for a period of time there are effects to the self-esteem of the controlled person that sometimes takes years to repair the damages. It is possible to heal from an abusive relationship once the person controlled becomes aware and seeks help with inner child work.A soundboard trusted person who has experienced the same kind of relationships and has broken the cycle of this abuse can be your greatest breakthrough to listen to. Talking to someone who has not broken co-decency in their own lives will keep you repeating the problem.When seeking advice check out the personal life of the person you are getting advice from. We often create more co-decency with people who are saying they are just trying to help us.We really don't need their help we need to know how to break the cycle.There are some very good teachers that teach people to think and help you find your own answers to your problems.
What are trust issues?Trust is a belief and if the inner child has seen mistrust in the relationship with a caretaker or with a higher source outside of the world of the inner child will seek trust from others before starting anything.They see everything in black and white with no gray areas.Either they trust or don't trust with no benefit of the doubt given.They make choices based on the belief they can't trust and usually create fears of mistrusting. They become stuck and compare everyone with those that they couldn't trust with the new relationships that are trying to start.They say," you can't trust anybody" and they attract negatives of mistrust.Stopping the cycle of mistrust and believing in trusting can happening when trust issues are healed through forgiveness of the mistrust in the inner child.
Can't listen while someone is talking
or communicate your feelings?Did this come from your childhood experiences?Where you told,"children were only to be seen and not heard?" This program is still running in your subconsciousness. Start working on allowing your inner child to say what you need to say from your heart.Don't hold back and practice with those that will listen to you.Find a sounding board type of person who will honor your every word.
Dear inner child,
Don't be confused by the world outside of you.Sometimes the distractions make you feel insecure and alone.Why are you afraid and creating fears when you know you are never alone? Do you know the distraction from others people and things in the world are there for you to learn from?Your own fears are your resistance to change and growth.Are you a child of God? If you are a child of the one God of Abraham and Moses you are following the journey back home to me.The Earth was made for you as a temporary home to experience all things in physically so that your spirit will be made whole through the trials and test of humans.Humans will judge you and condemn you because you are following me instead of the things of the world.This is my word to you dear child and is the same word I gave all my children.You need to go into the world and share your light and love you have in your heart.The children that follow the world are my children also but they are not aware of my love for them.They live in the shadows and fears they have created by following everything that is of the world made by other humans.There is a time for everything and a season in each child in this world when a turning will happen some call it a shift of consciousness.Some will turn to the creator of all and some will follow other humans. My children know my voice or sound and hear my call in their hearts.The ones that follow other humans will be destroyed by their own making.The child of God knows me because they don't love the things of the world and they hate the things of the world that I didn't create them.What are the things that God didn't create?God creation was the world but not all the things of the world that are created by humans are good for humans.The free will to choose was created by God to give each child freedom to experience everything and know what is good and bad for itself.What is good for a child of God is what is from God and what is bad for a child of God is from the children of the world. The children of the world create things that distract the children of God away from God and draw attention to themselves and work to make others worship them.They tell others to listen to them because they are getting messages from dead people and spiritual guides and from cards with painted pictures on them they bought at a store.They tell the future without any concern for the present and how this affects the life of the child they are leading astray.These are distractions for my children and cause them to stumble and fall on their path.Why do the children listen to such foolishness?The evil intent of the children of the world is very deceptive and takes them time to discover their own inner insights and their curiosity makes them stop questioning the people that tell them these things.God allows these humans who are doing things that hurt the children because of the lessons learned.He loves all His creations and is watching and listening even if they are not aware of this.He doesn't intervene until the divine timing occurs in each calling from His child.When they call Him He is there for each of them.They have to ask Him to come into their lives and turn from the others of the world.When a child of the world is seeking other gods instead of the one true God creator this child is consider lost but not forgotten by God. We have all been lost on our journey home to God.
Last night on my radio show a woman called in that was lost and confused.She was not sure of herself because she was very wrapped up in the "new age movement" and couldn't control her manic behavior to have a conversation.She kept repeating her words and her pity story of how no-one understood her.She was speaking as hurt and wounded inner child that had been in the world for many years and no-one would listen to her because she wouldn't listen to reason from her logical left brain. She talks but doesn't listen to what she is saying.She is not aware of who she is or what she is doing.She kept saying,'let me explain" but she could not explain her own thoughts.Why would a person so gifted with intuitions not know how to relate to others? She had taken in so much of the world that she was so overwhelmed by the information without comprehension she couldn't explain her questions she had. Her brain dysfunction was just part of the problem and this could be a chemical imbalance in her brain or she was asking the universe or spiritual guides or angels for her answers and she couldn't answer her own questions.Her breathing was not balanced and her thoughts were scattered and didn't make any sense as she kept talking without interruption. This is a case for the books for sure but not unusual for me as I have seen this with many connected to the "new age movement" and in mentally hospitals. She had to be muted from the show because she really didn't want to hear anything that helped her.She came into the show to share her pity victim consciousness life with complaints about how others are lower in energy than her and this bothers her.She has pride of self and ego identity has taken over to the point of no self-worth of her truth that God gave her her gifts of intuitions. How can this person or any person believe in everything outside of themselves and not believe in God?The "new age movement" has replaced God the father for other gods causing this confusion to sources that are not creative but have destructive effects in a person that has no reasonings or consciousness awareness that have free will to say no to other gods. Does this sound like programming and brainwashing of the child that belongs to God?God has compassion and still loves every child of this world and will help her to know him when she accepts Him. I have turned her over to Him and have done this to many that have crossed my path.
Turn over all your burdens my sweet inner child to God.The journey is not over it has just begun and I am writing a new page today in the present moment.
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Brenda Bradshaw
Dearest child of God,
When we think about the phrase "Rome wasn't built in a day" and God took six days to create the world and rested on the seventh day.These are both concept and perceptions of the time factor involved, aren't they?We tend to base everything we do or don't do on time and find ourselves stuck in the time factor as if it was the reason we don't accept changes that are happening on spiritual levels of consciousness.Changes are happening all the time and we can only observe what we are aware of with our human senses and dismiss the spiritual processing that is needed to make changes in our own perceptions. We know we can't change others and only have control over ourselves.But we still think we can change others and we do this by many of the deceptive practiced that we hear from advice from others outside of ourselves.It is very sad and kinda funny how we think we are helping others to change their lives and we can't change our lives.We all have encouraged others and we were left sitting on the curb without a way to find a place to live or money enough to feed ourselves.Where did we go wrong or did we go right by giving up our own dreams and aspirations so others might live a fulfilling life.We have suffered and taken the low road and submitted to the controls of others because we wanted to be taken care of because we couldn't make changes in ourselves.
The shift in consciousness was the "awareness factor" of who we are in a spiritual sense and to express and process all with our spiritual nature.We are three part creatures body, mind, and spirit and the connections are important to our wholeness.Harmony and agreement within the inner kingdom or domain of source God creator Christ or light must be a priority for every child of God.Boundaries are set to prevent invasions of other people's energies that will detract our purposes of our own spiritual growth progress.
When we seek answers we seek inwardly first so we can the time needed to process our own thoughts base on our own experiences from our past.We have all made mistakes and need to accept our bad choices and learn from them.As we have forgiveness for our mistakes and our participation in the bad choices we made we gain spiritual maturity.
Why do depend on others outside of ourselves? We came into the world depending on others to help us adapt to our physical limitations.This period of time still is in our subconsciousness and is called childhood or the inner child's experiences. The most important part of our journey to wholeness is to process our childhood experiences.Breaking co-decency in relationships with others and understanding that most relationships have a decency factor in them.The dependency on others can be good or bad depending on the two parties involved in the relationship. A relationship where free will is given to both parties in a relationship is the best answer to stopping co-dependency to form or change the relationship for more spiritual growth in both parties involved. This a process that occurs in one or both parties involved in the relationship.It usually takes two in agreement to keep a relationship going whether it is bad or good.The acceptance to change has to occur within just one person to bring peace and harmony to any relationship. If the other party doesn't want to change or accept the change in the dramatics in the relationship one person can grow spiritual without the other person changing.Usually, the relationship will change due to the energy of the person willing to stop being co-dependent because the energy changes and resistance are removed between the two parties.
Ask yourself these questions "Are you depending on others to do things for you can do yourself?"Have you given over your own power to make choices to others? Have you put yourself last?Have you given up your dreams ideas because you didn't trust yourself? Do you trust in others instead of your own higher power within yourself?Do you consult outer source other than God your creator? Do you still have childhood memories and emotions that keep you in bondage to your past? Can you surrender your ego and identity to all that is a materialistic illusion and know that the spiritual lifestyle gives freedom and independence and empowers you to be the child of God that you are?Can you stop creating fears and create the love of God that moves all limitation?
Take time to be and process all information with discernment and balance within.Renew your mind and study to make yourself approved.Don't seek others for approval because approval and acceptance is an inward process.Know that God is with you always if you allow His help and cast your burdens over to Him.Some co-dependency are good if the person is connected with God just like you are.Liked minded people have a connection to source and higher wisdom and this is not a bad co-dependency because it has God as the balance between the two people. The equal yoked partnership serves each and serves God.
Don't you just love the lucid dream state? I requested a dream questions before falling into a deep REM sleep state last night.The question was "What's going on in God's waiting room?" I saw a large waiting room with no walls or floors and people and animals and even plants were sitting and carry on conversations with each other.Most of the people had energy fields around them and they appeared to be praying together and the prayers were going upward in a mist of smoke clouds above each group of three or more.I started thinking of why I was waiting for God to help me with my problems just like all the others in the waiting room.My request for a car last years seem to be answered very fast and the waiting time was so unusual for such a manifestation that I just accepted the car with gratitude.I was sure everything was going to turn out alright with the car because I request it from God.It came from a source that was very strange to me my first husband called me and said," I bought you a car" and it is going to be delivered from Kentucky in a few days. I was shocked and surprised and didn't question the why or any details about the silver Volkswagon beetle 1998.I thought it was from God and that is all I thought about.Now I am in God's waiting room in a dream to ask more questions because there have been so many problems with the car and the money associated with the car I need answers from God on what to do.My problem seemed so small when I heard some of the requests other people in the waiting room were asking out loud as I began to listen to the sounds and watch the people praying.A mother with a young child sitting on her lap was crying and holding the child as she rocked back and forth praying for God to heal her child of cancer.Two angelic beings comforted her and blessed the child with oils and the child's eyes opened and he smiled at them.Sitting next to me was an older lady with white hair and wrinkles covering her face and her hands were shaking as she held her prayer beads she breathed deeply and said,"why me Lord" I was a good person.There were two women holding hands and looking at each other as they talked about the loss of their husbands in their early marriages and wanted to ask God when they would find new lovers in their life.So many waiting for answers to prayers that were no answered and the time was running out in their lives to enjoy living on Earth.I thought about every prayer that was being said and agreed with my own spirit that God would answer the prayers of those that were waiting.My car problems seem to disappear and when I knew others needed more than I did.I began to understand prayer request on a much deeper level. When prayers are answered too fast there seems to be a lesson attached and I am seeing this with my car problem.All the people I have met have been searching for answers to their prayers and trying to understand waiting.Waiting does have a purpose only God understands and when you get things too fast be ready for a lesson.Everything we ask for must be thought out carefully and we need to take into account of the cause and effect of every manifestation.
I was reading a facebook post last night before going to bed and I know why my dreams were about the waiting room of God. The post was about a woman who marriage was ending and she needed to get away fast from an abusive husband.She had two children that were being abused also.She didn't pray to God she asked the universe for help for money to help her escape her situation.She said she was a life coach and asked her clients for 1,000 dollars each to help her get away from her husband.My thoughts about her plight to leave kept bothering me as she wrote the rest of the post. First, she was a life coach and in her own life, she was not helping her own self with a problem she was asking for money to coach others.She wrote, in four days she had 12,000 dollars from clients and was now offering a course in manifestations. I couldn't help thinking about how she would tell others about her own life and help others to manifest better lives for themselves.Money was her answer and she was very proud she took the money to get away from her situation.She said she thank the universe for the money.Is this the way of the world to stop the waiting on God? Sorry to say but it is done every day on our planet.She will be in the waiting room soon with a question of what she has done to those that put trust in her and not God.Many people create co-dependency on others through their own co-dependency. She was in a co-dependency with her husband and her life is coaching others to be co-dependent on her.She thinks she escaped but she needed others to help her do it by charging money for life coaching that she has not even done herself.The lessons of trusting God instead of the world and using money gain from others instead of asking God are still being manifested every moment.She will regret taking money that was not hers to take as she will be caught up in a scheme of making co-decency of every one of her clients.This happens and there is no judgment on Earth only with God in the final judgment.
My dear radio and facebook readers,
When push comes to shove the idea of "putting into practice of what we say to others and what we say to ourselves is the teaching process of every experience might sound like something we just don't want to do."Every experience is teaching moment to be shared and taking as a spiritual growth for inspiration purposes we all know this but keep telling ourselves the same old story in our own thoughts and don't know how to we can learn from what happened to us in our past and this becomes a problem to live in the present moment.
The question to ourselves "do we do it or how can we do it?" Everything said and done by the human has to be balanced and integrated through this process and putting into practice in order to complete the inner growth process. The observance of free will and worthiness must be applied for practical uses in our problem solving and decision making to transform and transcend and manifest.
The alignment of such practices of the practice of teaching others and self will bring a harmony of all thoughts and the emotional reactions and responses to create the desires of the heart into a manifestation.The body, mind, and spirit are the connections within each human soul are coming together in agreement and the battle of the ego is over-ruled.
The transforming of the whole spiritual experience of the human-soul is to seek the glorification of the God-self within the core values of its worthiness through the practices of oneness.When the "one" of the three unities in harmony the flow of the "one" is the focus intention and will create the desired effect.
The trials and test in each experience are given to secure the proper balancing of every thought and emotional that each spirit needs to address and the process is to awaken the energies of the whole system. To those who have chosen to teach the message are on a higher growth process and are held responsible for their own experiences and to share to others.If a teacher or advisor has not practiced what they have taught the accountability factor of judgment will be uncovered by discernment in the final judgment.
The heart judgment is the final judgment of the transformation processes.Every soul speaks from the heart or the ego it is free will choice.
To my inner child,
1.Choose a place to meditate without distractions and relax then start your breathing slowly and place your right hand on your heart and tap gently as you listen to your breathing.The visual image is to see a baby laying on your heart area and you are burping the baby to release the stress in the inner child.
2.The adult is now ready to search for the secrets of the inner child, and find the memories of the inner child that are deep in the subconsciousness mind.
3.As the adult, you should speak with a gentle reassuring soft voice and use your unconditional love and kindness with the inner child in an objective manner.
4.As the adult remembers the events of the past memories breathing is important to the processing of every event that occurred in the past and to tell the inner child that it is now the present and you are the caretaker.
5.The original caretakers of the inner child will be in the memories so be prepared to replace yourself in the images with the inner child and don't put blame or judgment on the previous caretakers. Just keep telling the inner child you are now taking care of them now.
6.By releasing all judgments and blame for the original caretakers for their part of the inner child's journey through the victim consciousness you are now ready to forgive them and your inner child of all interaction in the memory that will come to your conscious mind in the present moment.
7.There will be certain words you can say to trigger the memories of the childhood experiences like a song or favorite story or any sensory attachments to childhood. Sometimes looking at pictures of yourself as the child is a good visualization technique.
8.Insecurity and trust by the adult are the main issues that have shown up in the adults life that came from the inner child's feelings that were not understood at the time they occurred so address them and tell the inner child you will keep them safe and secure.
9.The abusive thoughts from the memories of the inner child are both verbal and physical and will come into the conscious mind for the adult to process and release forgiveness to the caretakers and the inner child.Each event needs attention until a deep breath comes from the chest area keep tapping ad saying it will be okay dear one I am here.
10.There will moments of joy or peace and drama that will overwhelm and take your breath away so remember breath deeply.
11.Everything is a process of bringing memories into the consciousness and releasing the breath and saying it is okay now I am here for you now.
12.The emotions of the inner child are connected to the emotions of the adult and can be a trigger to react or response in any situation that the inner child is uncomfortable with.This is going to occur so go back to the meditation and bring back the memory of the experience in the adult's life and talk to the inner child about what he or she is feeling.
13.This exercise can be done alone or with a trained trusted person who has done their own inner child work.
Please contact me at lovereadings@yandex.com for information if you need a private session and I will give more advice.
