WHAT CAN WE SAY ABOUT FIRST LOVE?

THERE ARE MANY LOVES AND MANY ENCOUNTERS WITH LOVE.WE EXPERIENCE LOVE IN OUR HEARTS AND GIVE FROM OUR SOULS.


First love is the hardest love to give up and go forward to a new love.The experience of first love stays deep in our memories forever.We try to replace the emotions and compare the first love with all the love that follows.We are still in love with our first love of our life and the comparing keeps us entrance in they way we first gave our body, soul and heart to our first love.All the things we shared and the places we went still repeat in images in our dreams.We try to let go but the flashes memories of him or her have a life of their own and are alive in our minds.Forgiving seems easy but forgetting is hard because of our souls connection we made in vows of love still send the pain and the heartache and the moments of pleasures. How we yearn for one last breathless kiss or touch from our first love.As the physical leaves our presents we still feel the memories of all the times we laugh and cuddled by the dim lights in the car or at the parties.Memories of lost and haunt our new relationships like a thorn in our side. Wishing and wanting the scene to return to us we had with our first love.Sometimes our memories demand same and yet we don't want the same kind of love with the new person.We close our eyes and kiss the new person and the memories of the first love will come in our mind.We call out their name before we think and the new person hears it and we say we are sorry but, it has been done and the secret is out we are still in love with our first love.We are human and forgetting is just not easy especially when it comes from memories of our first love.We go on to other loves and go through the motions because we need love.We take anything that appears to be love.When a heart is broken we feel a need to replace the love by any means possible.We want that thrill of the first time we were first kissed or hugged with compassion and excitement of the first meeting.How can we give up loving in any way shape or form?We have to have some kind of closure don't we?What doors can we close when love is concerned? Can we still love someone new and leave our memories just in the back of our minds?This is a real problem with everyone on our planet because we do love many people and start new relationships on our journey of love.We give love and we receive the love we are loving.We need to put everything into perspective so we can move on from one love to another love in our lives.When we think about the statement "that we are all one and connected" does that mean we are just having a spiritual experience in a physical body.Of course, we can think about that statement but do we really believe it?We are still looking at the appearance and as long as we keep seeing and checking out what someone looks like we are not going to find love in the spiritual sense. We know appearances can be deceiving if we would give other humans a chance we would find a first love connection in spiritual terms. There really are more than one soul mate for each of us.Where did we get the idea that there was only one perfect love for each one of us?We need to get a hold on reality don't we?There are so many that get stuck because of a first love leaving or dying that we stop loving.We need to be what we were meant to be lovers forever and ever.We need to make new memories to replace the old memories this is the real cure.We need to give everyone we meet a chance to love us.We need to trust God when someone new comes into our lives.