HATE AND LOVE THE THIN LINE OF CONFUSION.

HATE AND LOVE THE TWO STRONGEST EMOTIONS OF WORLD WE LIVE IN TODAY.


When we choose to hate rather than love we bring confusion in our own belief's. How can we hate and still love?Our emotions judge our feelings and to create the perception of hate and love.We were told not to hate our brothers and sisters and love our enemies and the questions of who is our brother or the enemy? We were also told to hate the "things" of the world but many didn't read "the things" they just reading the world.When words are not interpreted or read for clarity we become confused.What are the things of the world we should hate?The word "things"means people of the world that do worldly things such as sin against God.What are worldly things and why should we hate them?Anything that God hates we should hate as believers.Does God hate everything the people of the world do? Certainly God created all things of the world and the people. So it is the things they do or the sin right? A real paradox for us to figure out and know that the word hate seems too strong for us to do as loving  believers. We resist hate in our words and feel it in our emotions when we see or hear things that world is doing.We really can't change our hatred into love without an understanding of why we hate.Hate comes from our love and trust in our God and the honor and respect for His authority. We hate that which is not our perception of how God would react to sins of the world.It is interesting that God so loved us and send His only begotten son to die for something He hated.This is very confusing isn't it?Does God loves the sinner and hate the sin? Or does God just love?We have to understand what sin is and why it plays an important part in the world don't we?As good and evil are present in everything so is the love of God in all.So the balance of hate and love of our own emotions God's love is in these also.We can hate and love at the same time and feel all the same emotion.We love our brothers and sisters but sometimes we hate the things they do.We judge even though we are told not too.The believer is discerning in their emotions but not blaming in their words.The process of using spiritual discernment is a type of judging used by every believer filled with the Holy Spirit.Sometimes hating something or someone takes conviction to come from their own connections with the Holy Spirit. As the hateful feelings rise up in the emotions the believer gets wisdom in God's word to ease the distress by hating anything.We  called this transcending the emotions and directing them to the Holy Spirit to "take this cup from us so to speak."We don't want to hate we want to love as God loves us.We want to be filled with God's love more than the love we have experienced on Earth.The love of a father for His child is the love we seek to overcome the world's love and hatred.When we have knowledge of the hate and love of the world and turn to God's love we will not have the emotions of hate and love of the world.How can we hate the world and love God who created the world? We can transcend the hate and know we are not of the world but in the world.

WHEN PEOPLE SAY-------------------?

When people say I don't care what other people say.What are they saying to themselves?In their subconscious mind, the message is I care too much about what other people say.Actually caring about anything is connected to their emotions and the heart wants to take care of the ego self and not the true self.The person who has the ego self is trying to protect their emotions from others that really don't care about them.This block or defence mechanism to "not cared" harms them not the people they directed their negative energies to.So the inside thoughts of our emotions reflect like a mirror to the outside field and coming back to us and caring is not given in a positive way.The ego self will tell the mind that it doesn't matter because it knows that nobody is right but them. Nobody can care because caring is impossible. So the belief system act according to what we say.When people say I will never do something is another sabotaging means of the ego self and keeps the person stuck in the "I can't" do this or that because I am not perfect and will never achieve. The striving to do anything does take effort and the ego self  may have emotions of regrets and failures that are in their memories they can't forgive themselves for.So the protection word is " I can't and will never do anything" and this is bondage to their belief's from their past experiences. When people say "trust me" they are saying they need your trust and maybe using this control to draw you into a deception.Be careful of this statement if it a verbal contract to buy,sell or give a service.A person's word is not taken in court or matters of business.In  a relationship, it may mean they have done some lying to others in relationships and want you to trust them complete because they have trust issues and insecurities. When it comes to trust the only real trust is within ourselves and our connection to God.When someone says I am always right and is not opened to your opinion watch out the ego pride is coming into the conversation.This person is a controller and wants control.You can have a conversation but be alert to giving your opinions on emotional triggers.The controller is the ego self and needs to maintain center stage and you are just welcome to come into the show not take over the show.Listen to the ego self and the emotions in their words of defence and remember they are trying to trap you with drama and want to you take them as they are.They also bring humor to lighten up their own serious demeanor when you say something serious.They don't take themselves seriously so why would you think you should take yourself seriously.The true-self person takes life serious and knows that every action, word ,and emotions are a part of their lives when it comes to God.When someone says I am sorry without repentance for what they have done to you.This is a time to forgive them and let go of the judgment and turn it over to God. If they return to you and keep repeating the act or abuse and ask for forgiveness give it again and again and each time turn it over to God.The real reason for forgiveness is your own soul, not theirs.This is a hard lesson for many and it is required for your own soul's forgiveness as "you forgive forgiveness is given"all is for your own soul and the other person will be forgiven by God.In most cases the forgiveness is a release of your angry and resentment for the transgressions done to you by you.When someone says they need your help, Help them to help themselves.We can listen and pray with them and guide them but we can't change them that's God's job.Empowering and uplifting are the jobs of the servants and teachers of God.They saying they are needy and want but remember what a wise person told me "people say and do what they want to do all the time."The imaginary "they" is used by many that have low self-esteem and no identity so they say they say this or that as if "they "are real threats to their lives. In their in mind, everything outside of them has more power than their own self-worth inside.

DISCOVERING YOUR INNER EMOTIONAL NEEDS.

AS HUMANS, WE DO HAVE WANTS AND NEEDS AND WE EXPRESS THESE THROUGH OUR EMOTIONS IN A VERY NEGATIVE WAY TO GAIN SOME RELIEF.



Can we learn to express our emotions in a positive way?We really don't know what we want or feel many times we just express the emotion deep within our issues and regrets of our past situations.Spiritual maturity has not been explored fully with many humans.It is human to be emotional and expressing is are part of the emotional release for healing if done properly. All needs and wants are attachments to desires to be whole in true self or the ego self. The emptiness and void of completeness can cause yearnings to draw energy from others that are spiritually mature.The real need and want are a source to draw from outside of themselves and not other humans.Many are saying they need God and this is a source for many who believe it is their source for everything.For many who have no belief's or don't use their belief's are wandering in the darkness of their emotions and talk about what they want and need in the material sense.When a child of God has filled the void with God they are prepared to help and teach other humans to seek the God source.Jesus said,"teach a man to fish and he can feed his family" you might say "teach a person to become spiritually mature and they can heal themselves."the problem is children of God take God's place and the person doesn't get heal and becomes a burden on the helper.And the person still has emotional baggage and need and want more help from others.

I have talked to many callers on my radio shows and receive e-mails from needy humans due to emotional weakness to cope with burdens from helping others.Compassion for other humans flows from our feelings like water and is very natural for the child of God.Their own emotions have become affected by other humans giving negative energies. Their intentions to help others has overwhelmed their own emotional health and the physical has taken the negative energy in also.I remember thinking my calling from God was to help others in any way that I could by using my gifts.This was my perception at that time and now I have changed my thoughts on this subject.I knew that every human had gifts also and couldn't figure out why they couldn't do the healing for themselves. I know everyone needs to talk with someone for confirmation of what they are thinking sometimes.I am a teacher and this really helped me to advise my callers of how they could make changes within themselves.Advice should always be with the person's permission of their own free will.When free will is not given and the person is told all the answers this didn't work they struggled even more with their emotions.Helping others is not a calling to control somebodies will.When the person's given advice is in fears and emotional drama this is harmful to the person's receiving the help.The burdens are taken in and not given to God and remain in the helper.The energy transference is negative and both the helper and the person's begin help suffers.

I was talking to a medium the other day and he said,"I help people to get messages from their loved ones that are dead"it is my calling from God to do this.They were so afraid of the messages that were given many times they would not sleep or take care of themselves.I didn't judge the medium I just asked why? He said, "I have fears of death".I found this very interesting that they had problems with their calling or purpose.A calling or purpose usually is in based on the gifts given to the person for the glory of God and His purposes. He also said " I have an illness in my body and want a healing"I keep going to Spiritualistic church every week to be healed."I can't stop my fears of this calling. I talked about familiar spirits and explain the subconscious memories we all have of our loved ones that have gone through the transition from the body to spirit.He said,"he no knowledge of this and death scared him". I also told him I had done some medium channeling and the messages were to comfort the loved ones with confirmation that their loved ones are at peace in the spirit world.I didn't have any fears of the death process.I told him the messages are from the life of the person while on this Earth and no new  memories of the future are given.He said,"he gets new information that can't be confirmed by him or the loved ones he talks too."I told him he was channeling disembodied spirits in the channeling he was doing.Usually, when the gift of discernment is not in operation information can be confused by thoughts of the medium or loved ones need to get any information just to prove death or a spiritual connection.Clearing the channel of all emotional fears and issues is important to receiving messages from spirits and the medium needs to discern the spirits.All information needs confirmation from the loved ones that a connection has been made by the medium,Names need to be correct and information given matches the memories of the loved one.

WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?

Many times I hear my clients say something or take an action that is destroying  or sabotaging that doesn't fit the picture of their journey. For example here is a list of few things I have heard.

1. The healer is sick and can't heal themselves.

2.The client wants love from everyone but doesn't love themselves.

3.The medium is talking to a dead spirit and has a fear of death and can't deal with emotions themselves.

4.A client wants to get  between two adult children and control their lives and the clients life is out of control.

5.A client wants advice but doesn't want to hear the advice.

6.A person claiming to have psychic abilities but can be objective and read for themselves.

7.A woman who says she loves people to death and won't give free will to anyone.

8. A client that says they are always right and everyone else is wrong.

9.A needed client who says others people's opinions are better than hers.

10. A church going person that preaches and acts holy when around other believers and ask for advice from everyone but God.

JUST SAYING! WHAT'S WRONG WITH THESE PICTURES?

Healing/SCIENCE IS FINALLY CATCHING UP WITH SPIRITUALITY.

 JESUS THE MESSIAH SPOKE ON FAITH INSIDE EACH IS REQUIRED TO HEAL.CAN WE HEAL OUR BODIES, MIND,  AND SOUL BY FAITH?

In a recent Ted talk, science has proven beyond that shadow of a doubt that effects of out thoughts can affect every cell in our body.The spiritual communities have been saying this forever and knew that faith is a substance that can heal.This is not blind faith but real faith that the children of God use every day.Faith is the words of God in action and purpose for the good of God.The practice of healing is an ongoing process of feeding the entire system positive energy for complete wholeness.We appear to be in parts and pieces but the connection is always coming together in unity.When we think of separation this causes abandonment in our emotions and a stress condition within the entire system. A feeling of alone or loneliness has brought the systems in each cell to a complete stop in some humans.The effects of other people around a human that is ill or in a system shut down are very important to the healing process.What is said or done can bring healing or death.It seems the  influence are more important to the caring then doctors were taught in recent years.There was a teaching many years ago called" bedside manner" and this has been ignored in  the days we are now in.Doctors went on house calls and the environment of the sick person was important also to the healing process. What has happening to the caring loving care of the health care in our nation?The money seems to have taken over and the humans are dying from very simple illness.There are many metaphysical treatments available for those that seek help to be healed but the general public or low income have no knowledge given to them even in the churches.The church should teach healing by faith alone as Jesus taught.Does the doctors or churches know what healing would do?Is this the reason for the hidden knowledge in plain sight in the word of God?If they would be healed would they need the words from the story of the past repeated each Sunday? Like robots they sit there listening to the same sermons and no healing is offered.A call forward to accept Jesus and no called to be healed.Was the called to heal the sick by Jesus?When we meet someone on our journey do we do a healing or just pray for them? We know they need a healing don't we?I agree we are doing the work we are called to many times and this really is needed.Many children of God are getting ready.As the children heal themselves they can give healing to others.The releases of fears of your own creations will bring more boldness to reach out to heal others.
show 4/4/16
healing
host psychic Brenda Bradshaw

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A SPIRITUAL SOUL MATES CHECKLIST.

THE PURPOSE OF SOUL MATES IS TO COMPLIMENT EACH ENTITY'S  CALLING,DESIRES,AND SPIRITUALITY IN THE CHRIST CONSCIOUSNESS.


Every checklist we make needs to fit into our own sojourn as Edgar Cayce's said," Each entity requires wholeness within their own spiritual awareness" this is the journey of the soul, not the body physically.When we have gain wisdom and knowledge of the purposes within each experience we have encountered on this sojourn we can move forward.The entity's we related to were brought to us for purposes of God's plan and we had free will to choose to relate or not to relate.The chemistry or the frequencies of our soul's energy was activated because of own desires for an unconditional love within us as children of God. We were seeking this type of love in return as we gave it freely.Many times we were taken advantage of and this was because we gave it to someone who didn't have unconditional love to give us.We became disappointed and discouraged  many times.We found chemistry and frequencies in many other humans but the unconditional love in return was rare.This is first on our soul mate checklist to seek more than the chemistry between others because we know we have those that are in our soul groups sometimes just are good for us to be around but not to be considered as soul mate material.

The second item on the list is a connection and a drawing of your soul spiritually and emotionally.This would mean that the chemistry is present and the unconditional love is begin given and received by each. The emotions of the heart are affected and desires for a physical connection is starting in the spirit first because the same wholeness for spiritual purposes is of each is coming to the center of the relationship.The two souls are merging in the love of God  they both have and the callings are a match to serve God.Each soul is already whole in their own connection to God and receiving a divine message of confirmation from God about the relationship.Their own sense of purpose as a servant of God and the other person's sense of purpose for God are the two most important factors in a soul mate connection.

Last and not least as the two souls discover the emotional baggage each carried on their journey's the transparency and truths of both are released through conversations and forgiveness in the union is created by God's love for both.The stage is set for an agreement to bring the two spiritual sojourn's together in harmony and peace for a fresh start to becoming one.The physical part comes through the desires for wholeness in each and is a shared experience with touching and eminence that God has directed to bring the two souls into a sacred holy communion of the one soul unity.

checklist
1.chemistry/DNA/frequencies
2.unconditional love/given/received
3.connection/drawing/meeting by on your path
4.wholeness in each soul
5.divine confirmation
6.sense of purposes
7.emotionally,spiritually and physical

WHAT CAUSES A QUICKEN IN SPIRIT?

LONG AGO AND FAR AWAY AS THE STORY GOES. A COUPLE WAS SO IN LOVE EVEN WHEN THEY PARTED FOR A FEW DAYS WHEN THEY UNITED THERE WAS A SPARK OF ENERGY BETWEEN THE TWO SOULS.


SPARKING was the dating word because of this energy between two souls destiny to be together throughout eternity.As the phases of the relationship blossomed, the term courting became the catch phrase.There were moon lite night and swooning over the stars on lovers lane to increase the courtship romance.The pecking was the kissing and clothes were kept on with only her ankle showing for enticement. She was shy bashful and respected for her hidden charms of her virginity she protected.Her natural beauty was adored and her modest makeup was a light blush seen only in the candle light. She was demure and only spoke when her suitor gently touched her hand to guide her through a door into another room for further conversation. Women had grace and class and style that was present in their spiritual awareness of their own wisdom.They didn't need a coach to make  them they were a lady the knew they were to be respected. Even the girls who were tomboys and hung around the boys in the neighbourhood  playing tag and games of pretending to be mothers and fathers of to their dolls.I had a boyfriend that had a doll and his father built furniture out of orange crates for us to pretend with our dolls that we were a family.Many times I  would play dress up and walk around in their mother's high heels and dance in front of the mirror and sing with my hair brush.

All souls entered into this world searching for an identity and the masculine and famine are definitely changing.I was told to ladylike and the tomboy was always urging me to run and play in the dirt with cars and roll around in the grass or down a hill on a piece of cardboard.I knew I was different in so many things and to choose to be girl or woman was just the  mother part of me that wanted to be somebodies caretaker in the future.In school, I would gather all the children on the playground in a circle and start games that would bring everyone together. The joining of who we are and what feels good and we follow that emotional yearning of the heart.As the journey from childhood is the first of the quicken of spirit in our activities we choose to bring into reality. It is all about friends, fun and the joy of the freedom of the soul.The child in me still remains and my thoughts are childlike most of the time.As I grew into my teen years I had to make a choice to be a tomboy or a lady in my body that was given to me.My brain was always thinking more about begin a mother and that is where I went to discover my sexual relationships.The goal was to have a baby and fill the role of a wife and mother.Every boy I dated had very loving natures and wanted just to kiss or make out but when it came to the subject of children they had no interest in making a family. At age 14 I met a man who was 21 years old and he said the magic words "I want you to be the mother of my children" he was in the Army and left to go to Panama and we wrote each other letters.This was so perfect and as the years went by a letter came saying he was marrying a girl from Panama. I  was heart broken for the first time.My goal was not to get involved unless the person wanted children but God had another plan for my life.Dating was the plan and learning how to love unconditional and allow God to guide me.The men came and went and the late night in the cars at the drive-ins were exciting and dangerous because I didn't do anything sexual with them so the dating thing was not my thing.I turn to religion and when to church and my spirit quicken every time I praise God in song and practices. I knew that I belonged to God. At age 11 I was called to be a prophet but I didn't take that serious. So my teen years really show me this was not the right life for me.At age 16 my dreams came true that I pray for many nights as I sat looking up at a star and wishing. I met Charlie and my world stopped as he came walking down the street in front of my apartment in the dark shadows towards me.I knew God had sent him.Yes,there was quickening in my spirit that night.Was this a soul mate connection that would last forever I asked God.And God told me in my heart it would be forever. My soul was complete when Charlie was around talking to me on the phone.I wanted his child more each day and we didn't use any protection.After 11 years still no children, the doctors told us the news we couldn't have children.So I pray and God told me to adopt a baby. I talk to Charlie and he didn't agree at first so I kept praying for his heart to change.This was a very hard time in our marriage.Charlie really loved all my attention and wasn't sure about bringing in a child between the two of us.The day his heart changed there was quickening in my soul.We became a family of a 5-month-old boy. The days flew by as Joshua our son grew into a 7-year-old home- schooled young man.Charlie helped me as much as could with all the lessons of life and spend time with him one on one many times.My memories are good and I have no regrets of raising a fine young man of very many gifts of God.Charlie and I both knew that the day would come to go on our own journey's we had many conversations about the children of this world. The children Charlie took care of are all men now thanks  to God speaking to his heart.And I found a journey to help the children of God also.The two journey's have come back together after 30 years and God has renewed the quickening of our souls in the relationship between Charlie and me.We are talking about our past memories and this is through God's grace.Forgiveness and unconditional love are given by both of us. I have no expectations of the results only the moment to moment in this time I have been given by God. I get a quickening in spirit everytime he calls me.