WHEN SOME PEOPLE SAYS "I WILL LOVE YOU TO DEATH"WATCH OUT!

DOES THIS SOUND LIKE THE KIND OF LOVE YOU WANT? OR DOES IT SOUND  LIKE PROCESSIVE LOVE?


This type of love may sound like an endearment at first but be careful it is not the type of love anybody wants.I have heard the phrase come from people who want control over your life The control starts slowly with them saying they care about you and want the best for you.They will also  talk negative  about your family and friends and say "you don't need them you need only me"be careful they are separating you from outside contacts.The processive love requires you follow their rules and your free will is gone at this point.When codependence first starts many people are unaware and have no place to turn because they have no family or friends they can talk too.The fears of anyone finding out makes them surrender. The final steps to the trap of the relationship are the verbal abuses and the loss of self-esteem.This type of love can happen in a marriage or a friendship.Becoming aware of the signs can be useful for future or relationships your not sure of.The quick friend that says "I love to death" just because you listen to them in a phone conversation is a danger sign.Also,the parent of a growth child can say this and try to keep the adult child always their baby.They control with guilt and verbal abuse usually, will tell the adult they have no responsibility and say"I love you to death"and they gain control because the adult child still needs love and their parents to be proud of them.This becomes a phycological hold on the adult child and the phase is used in their relationships as if it is the way to love.They ruin many relationships with this type of control over others They have rules of how a friendship and relationships should be and they are always right in their own ego mind.As they say "I will love you to death" they mean it they will drain you of your life.They will check on you and ask many questions of what you did while you away from them .This the jealousy factor and they will remind you that you don't need anyone but them in your life.You might think they are  protective but the intention is control just like their parents or parent did to them so it appears natural to them to treat people the same way.I don't want to be "love to death" I try that life and it was not God's love.I lost everything and thought I die because of that kind of love.This kind of love is not what God wanted for His children.

TAKING THE BIG JUMP OF AN IDEA.

DO YOU GET FLASHES OF INSPIRATION WHILE WALKING,DRIVING OR JUST WAKING UP FROM A NAP OR LONG NIGHTS SLEEP?


Inspiration is everywhere we go in nature and from our friends we like to share with.I was writing on word press. com  for two years and posting my papers on Facebook.The papers I wrote were my experiences on my spiritual journey that were unfolding every day.I was often  by my clients and their stories and the life events gave me great ideas for my papers also.The papers are still on wordpress.com for those that want to read my start in writing my journal. Those writings didn't get much attention and I went back to the "drawing board" to rethink why? I thought about rejection first and this is where many people go start when something isn't going in the direction they expected.I  took an objective view and thought about thinking "out of the box The idea of writing was the idea and that was being done for my own inner growth spiritually.I still wanted to share the papers with others on their journey's as well.Sometimes the sharing brought comments that increased my inspiration.for another paper.So the thoughts of changing to blogger came across my searching for a better way to bring theses inspiration to others I am so pleased with this change and opportunity  to share it with all my readers.Since I started on blogger in 2015 and have 2993 page views and  I am so blessed by each of you that made comments.This is very encouraging to a writer and lifts my spirit.My journey has been your journey also we are in this grand experience together.My google blog page shows 20,970 views of my video's and my papers and this is amazing and exciting to me.I have published 155 papers with God's inspiration and the help of all you.As my last video posted "thanks to the keeper of the stars comes to you remember where creativity and imagination come from God the creator we are just His instruments. Sharing is caring and you all know I care for all you.I have done many talks and radio shows using God's help to use my imagination for the good of all.Please leave a short comment to inspire me to keep the energy flowing.

HATE AND LOVE THE THIN LINE OF CONFUSION.

HATE AND LOVE THE TWO STRONGEST EMOTIONS OF WORLD WE LIVE IN TODAY.


When we choose to hate rather than love we bring confusion in our own belief's. How can we hate and still love?Our emotions judge our feelings and to create the perception of hate and love.We were told not to hate our brothers and sisters and love our enemies and the questions of who is our brother or the enemy? We were also told to hate the "things" of the world but many didn't read "the things" they just reading the world.When words are not interpreted or read for clarity we become confused.What are the things of the world we should hate?The word "things"means people of the world that do worldly things such as sin against God.What are worldly things and why should we hate them?Anything that God hates we should hate as believers.Does God hate everything the people of the world do? Certainly God created all things of the world and the people. So it is the things they do or the sin right? A real paradox for us to figure out and know that the word hate seems too strong for us to do as loving  believers. We resist hate in our words and feel it in our emotions when we see or hear things that world is doing.We really can't change our hatred into love without an understanding of why we hate.Hate comes from our love and trust in our God and the honor and respect for His authority. We hate that which is not our perception of how God would react to sins of the world.It is interesting that God so loved us and send His only begotten son to die for something He hated.This is very confusing isn't it?Does God loves the sinner and hate the sin? Or does God just love?We have to understand what sin is and why it plays an important part in the world don't we?As good and evil are present in everything so is the love of God in all.So the balance of hate and love of our own emotions God's love is in these also.We can hate and love at the same time and feel all the same emotion.We love our brothers and sisters but sometimes we hate the things they do.We judge even though we are told not too.The believer is discerning in their emotions but not blaming in their words.The process of using spiritual discernment is a type of judging used by every believer filled with the Holy Spirit.Sometimes hating something or someone takes conviction to come from their own connections with the Holy Spirit. As the hateful feelings rise up in the emotions the believer gets wisdom in God's word to ease the distress by hating anything.We  called this transcending the emotions and directing them to the Holy Spirit to "take this cup from us so to speak."We don't want to hate we want to love as God loves us.We want to be filled with God's love more than the love we have experienced on Earth.The love of a father for His child is the love we seek to overcome the world's love and hatred.When we have knowledge of the hate and love of the world and turn to God's love we will not have the emotions of hate and love of the world.How can we hate the world and love God who created the world? We can transcend the hate and know we are not of the world but in the world.

WHEN PEOPLE SAY-------------------?

When people say I don't care what other people say.What are they saying to themselves?In their subconscious mind, the message is I care too much about what other people say.Actually caring about anything is connected to their emotions and the heart wants to take care of the ego self and not the true self.The person who has the ego self is trying to protect their emotions from others that really don't care about them.This block or defence mechanism to "not cared" harms them not the people they directed their negative energies to.So the inside thoughts of our emotions reflect like a mirror to the outside field and coming back to us and caring is not given in a positive way.The ego self will tell the mind that it doesn't matter because it knows that nobody is right but them. Nobody can care because caring is impossible. So the belief system act according to what we say.When people say I will never do something is another sabotaging means of the ego self and keeps the person stuck in the "I can't" do this or that because I am not perfect and will never achieve. The striving to do anything does take effort and the ego self  may have emotions of regrets and failures that are in their memories they can't forgive themselves for.So the protection word is " I can't and will never do anything" and this is bondage to their belief's from their past experiences. When people say "trust me" they are saying they need your trust and maybe using this control to draw you into a deception.Be careful of this statement if it a verbal contract to buy,sell or give a service.A person's word is not taken in court or matters of business.In  a relationship, it may mean they have done some lying to others in relationships and want you to trust them complete because they have trust issues and insecurities. When it comes to trust the only real trust is within ourselves and our connection to God.When someone says I am always right and is not opened to your opinion watch out the ego pride is coming into the conversation.This person is a controller and wants control.You can have a conversation but be alert to giving your opinions on emotional triggers.The controller is the ego self and needs to maintain center stage and you are just welcome to come into the show not take over the show.Listen to the ego self and the emotions in their words of defence and remember they are trying to trap you with drama and want to you take them as they are.They also bring humor to lighten up their own serious demeanor when you say something serious.They don't take themselves seriously so why would you think you should take yourself seriously.The true-self person takes life serious and knows that every action, word ,and emotions are a part of their lives when it comes to God.When someone says I am sorry without repentance for what they have done to you.This is a time to forgive them and let go of the judgment and turn it over to God. If they return to you and keep repeating the act or abuse and ask for forgiveness give it again and again and each time turn it over to God.The real reason for forgiveness is your own soul, not theirs.This is a hard lesson for many and it is required for your own soul's forgiveness as "you forgive forgiveness is given"all is for your own soul and the other person will be forgiven by God.In most cases the forgiveness is a release of your angry and resentment for the transgressions done to you by you.When someone says they need your help, Help them to help themselves.We can listen and pray with them and guide them but we can't change them that's God's job.Empowering and uplifting are the jobs of the servants and teachers of God.They saying they are needy and want but remember what a wise person told me "people say and do what they want to do all the time."The imaginary "they" is used by many that have low self-esteem and no identity so they say they say this or that as if "they "are real threats to their lives. In their in mind, everything outside of them has more power than their own self-worth inside.

DISCOVERING YOUR INNER EMOTIONAL NEEDS.

AS HUMANS, WE DO HAVE WANTS AND NEEDS AND WE EXPRESS THESE THROUGH OUR EMOTIONS IN A VERY NEGATIVE WAY TO GAIN SOME RELIEF.



Can we learn to express our emotions in a positive way?We really don't know what we want or feel many times we just express the emotion deep within our issues and regrets of our past situations.Spiritual maturity has not been explored fully with many humans.It is human to be emotional and expressing is are part of the emotional release for healing if done properly. All needs and wants are attachments to desires to be whole in true self or the ego self. The emptiness and void of completeness can cause yearnings to draw energy from others that are spiritually mature.The real need and want are a source to draw from outside of themselves and not other humans.Many are saying they need God and this is a source for many who believe it is their source for everything.For many who have no belief's or don't use their belief's are wandering in the darkness of their emotions and talk about what they want and need in the material sense.When a child of God has filled the void with God they are prepared to help and teach other humans to seek the God source.Jesus said,"teach a man to fish and he can feed his family" you might say "teach a person to become spiritually mature and they can heal themselves."the problem is children of God take God's place and the person doesn't get heal and becomes a burden on the helper.And the person still has emotional baggage and need and want more help from others.

I have talked to many callers on my radio shows and receive e-mails from needy humans due to emotional weakness to cope with burdens from helping others.Compassion for other humans flows from our feelings like water and is very natural for the child of God.Their own emotions have become affected by other humans giving negative energies. Their intentions to help others has overwhelmed their own emotional health and the physical has taken the negative energy in also.I remember thinking my calling from God was to help others in any way that I could by using my gifts.This was my perception at that time and now I have changed my thoughts on this subject.I knew that every human had gifts also and couldn't figure out why they couldn't do the healing for themselves. I know everyone needs to talk with someone for confirmation of what they are thinking sometimes.I am a teacher and this really helped me to advise my callers of how they could make changes within themselves.Advice should always be with the person's permission of their own free will.When free will is not given and the person is told all the answers this didn't work they struggled even more with their emotions.Helping others is not a calling to control somebodies will.When the person's given advice is in fears and emotional drama this is harmful to the person's receiving the help.The burdens are taken in and not given to God and remain in the helper.The energy transference is negative and both the helper and the person's begin help suffers.

I was talking to a medium the other day and he said,"I help people to get messages from their loved ones that are dead"it is my calling from God to do this.They were so afraid of the messages that were given many times they would not sleep or take care of themselves.I didn't judge the medium I just asked why? He said, "I have fears of death".I found this very interesting that they had problems with their calling or purpose.A calling or purpose usually is in based on the gifts given to the person for the glory of God and His purposes. He also said " I have an illness in my body and want a healing"I keep going to Spiritualistic church every week to be healed."I can't stop my fears of this calling. I talked about familiar spirits and explain the subconscious memories we all have of our loved ones that have gone through the transition from the body to spirit.He said,"he no knowledge of this and death scared him". I also told him I had done some medium channeling and the messages were to comfort the loved ones with confirmation that their loved ones are at peace in the spirit world.I didn't have any fears of the death process.I told him the messages are from the life of the person while on this Earth and no new  memories of the future are given.He said,"he gets new information that can't be confirmed by him or the loved ones he talks too."I told him he was channeling disembodied spirits in the channeling he was doing.Usually, when the gift of discernment is not in operation information can be confused by thoughts of the medium or loved ones need to get any information just to prove death or a spiritual connection.Clearing the channel of all emotional fears and issues is important to receiving messages from spirits and the medium needs to discern the spirits.All information needs confirmation from the loved ones that a connection has been made by the medium,Names need to be correct and information given matches the memories of the loved one.

WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?

Many times I hear my clients say something or take an action that is destroying  or sabotaging that doesn't fit the picture of their journey. For example here is a list of few things I have heard.

1. The healer is sick and can't heal themselves.

2.The client wants love from everyone but doesn't love themselves.

3.The medium is talking to a dead spirit and has a fear of death and can't deal with emotions themselves.

4.A client wants to get  between two adult children and control their lives and the clients life is out of control.

5.A client wants advice but doesn't want to hear the advice.

6.A person claiming to have psychic abilities but can be objective and read for themselves.

7.A woman who says she loves people to death and won't give free will to anyone.

8. A client that says they are always right and everyone else is wrong.

9.A needed client who says others people's opinions are better than hers.

10. A church going person that preaches and acts holy when around other believers and ask for advice from everyone but God.

JUST SAYING! WHAT'S WRONG WITH THESE PICTURES?

Healing/SCIENCE IS FINALLY CATCHING UP WITH SPIRITUALITY.

 JESUS THE MESSIAH SPOKE ON FAITH INSIDE EACH IS REQUIRED TO HEAL.CAN WE HEAL OUR BODIES, MIND,  AND SOUL BY FAITH?

In a recent Ted talk, science has proven beyond that shadow of a doubt that effects of out thoughts can affect every cell in our body.The spiritual communities have been saying this forever and knew that faith is a substance that can heal.This is not blind faith but real faith that the children of God use every day.Faith is the words of God in action and purpose for the good of God.The practice of healing is an ongoing process of feeding the entire system positive energy for complete wholeness.We appear to be in parts and pieces but the connection is always coming together in unity.When we think of separation this causes abandonment in our emotions and a stress condition within the entire system. A feeling of alone or loneliness has brought the systems in each cell to a complete stop in some humans.The effects of other people around a human that is ill or in a system shut down are very important to the healing process.What is said or done can bring healing or death.It seems the  influence are more important to the caring then doctors were taught in recent years.There was a teaching many years ago called" bedside manner" and this has been ignored in  the days we are now in.Doctors went on house calls and the environment of the sick person was important also to the healing process. What has happening to the caring loving care of the health care in our nation?The money seems to have taken over and the humans are dying from very simple illness.There are many metaphysical treatments available for those that seek help to be healed but the general public or low income have no knowledge given to them even in the churches.The church should teach healing by faith alone as Jesus taught.Does the doctors or churches know what healing would do?Is this the reason for the hidden knowledge in plain sight in the word of God?If they would be healed would they need the words from the story of the past repeated each Sunday? Like robots they sit there listening to the same sermons and no healing is offered.A call forward to accept Jesus and no called to be healed.Was the called to heal the sick by Jesus?When we meet someone on our journey do we do a healing or just pray for them? We know they need a healing don't we?I agree we are doing the work we are called to many times and this really is needed.Many children of God are getting ready.As the children heal themselves they can give healing to others.The releases of fears of your own creations will bring more boldness to reach out to heal others.
show 4/4/16
healing
host psychic Brenda Bradshaw

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