WHEN SOME PEOPLE SAYS "I WILL LOVE YOU TO DEATH"WATCH OUT!

DOES THIS SOUND LIKE THE KIND OF LOVE YOU WANT? OR DOES IT SOUND  LIKE PROCESSIVE LOVE?


This type of love may sound like an endearment at first but be careful it is not the type of love anybody wants.I have heard the phrase come from people who want control over your life The control starts slowly with them saying they care about you and want the best for you.They will also  talk negative  about your family and friends and say "you don't need them you need only me"be careful they are separating you from outside contacts.The processive love requires you follow their rules and your free will is gone at this point.When codependence first starts many people are unaware and have no place to turn because they have no family or friends they can talk too.The fears of anyone finding out makes them surrender. The final steps to the trap of the relationship are the verbal abuses and the loss of self-esteem.This type of love can happen in a marriage or a friendship.Becoming aware of the signs can be useful for future or relationships your not sure of.The quick friend that says "I love to death" just because you listen to them in a phone conversation is a danger sign.Also,the parent of a growth child can say this and try to keep the adult child always their baby.They control with guilt and verbal abuse usually, will tell the adult they have no responsibility and say"I love you to death"and they gain control because the adult child still needs love and their parents to be proud of them.This becomes a phycological hold on the adult child and the phase is used in their relationships as if it is the way to love.They ruin many relationships with this type of control over others They have rules of how a friendship and relationships should be and they are always right in their own ego mind.As they say "I will love you to death" they mean it they will drain you of your life.They will check on you and ask many questions of what you did while you away from them .This the jealousy factor and they will remind you that you don't need anyone but them in your life.You might think they are  protective but the intention is control just like their parents or parent did to them so it appears natural to them to treat people the same way.I don't want to be "love to death" I try that life and it was not God's love.I lost everything and thought I die because of that kind of love.This kind of love is not what God wanted for His children.