A great song deserves a plug every once in a while right? "The best of my love" or "I give the best of my love" is a song that makes me think logically about the words "best" of love we give to others. Do we think we deserve to be given the best of our love we give to others? Do others give the best of their love to us?Do we give the best of our love to ourselves? We always say " I want to be the best I can be" but are we always at our best in everything?
What is your intentions or mindset when you think of a relationship? Do your want a long term or short term relationship? Do you want a commitment or just companionship? Do you want an equal or an opposite?What are you willing to accept in a relationship?These are conditions and need to be answered by you. You may have to do some emotional work and logical brain questioning before you can be ready to stay in the relationship your are in or start a new one. You need the whole brain to do what you consider your best, don't you?
Considering the human complex model of emotions vs logical thoughts are we at our "best we can be"when we are using a brain preference that may not be the best tool in all situation we find ourselves in a relationship.Knowing and using the whole brain I think would be the best tool to give and receive the best of our love that we think we deserve.
How many times have we heard someone say,"you deserve better' and you say,"yes I do' but do you know what is better or best for you? You might have an idea of what was best for you when you compared all the other relationships you have had in the past. But is this a new relationship and not the same person you dating before in the past and you are you the same person you were. It is not logical to compare the present with past.We can learn from the past experiences and remember our mistakes but to keep comparing everything with the present to the past keeps us stuck and we are not being fair to ourselves and certainly not at our best.
The questions and answers are in your own self no one knows you better than you know yourself. Everyone says,"I want to do my best' or "I am getting better" and "I know what I deserve." but just saying it doesn't always go deeper into your thoughts and heart.To love with the full connection of the body, mind, and soul is a very good example of the connections to the source of the creation. Everything starts with one source and connects to another source and all sources become the one source.The connection, the agreement, and marriage of the tools provided to be use to do the best we can truly be. The heart follows the mindset or intentions and the soul follows the body in motion as the flow completes the manifestations of love.
The right brain fills the body, mind, and soul with imaginations of images and intuitions of sights and sounds and smells of the senses of the physical touching and the worlds of fantasy. The left brain reasoning objectively all the emotions that were trigger by the sensations and of the right brain to bring agreement and the marriage of the dance of love- making.Using the whole brain is the best why to start a relationship and keep love alive in your present relationship.
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