ARE WE CREATING MORAL DILEMMAS?

EVERY SOCIETY FORMS NEW RULES BASED ON CULTURAL CHANGES AND EACH GENERATION BRINGS IT'S OWN FORM OF MORALITY.

THERE ARE SOME STANDARDS OF PERSONAL MORALS THAT HUMANS ARE TAUGHT WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG.KNOWING RIGHT OR WRONG WAYS OF DOING THINGS THEIR PARENTS MORALS ARE.

AS THE YOUNG CHILD OBSERVES AND FOLLOWS RULES OF THE PARENTS HOME AND LEARNS ABOUT MORALS, THE CHILD WILL ACCEPT OR REJECT THE LESSONS.

STUDIES OF FAMILIES WITH  DYSFUNCTIONAL  MORALS ARE  RAISING THEIR CHILDREN.EITHER WITH MORALS OR NONE AT ALL. SO RIGHT AND WRONG IS DETERMINE BY THE CHILD TO FIND OUT WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG WITHIN THEIR OWN REALITY.

Can humans know right and wrong by experiencing  many situations of conflicts and complex situations? As the child grows up into a teenager right and wrong becomes a testing and trial of choices brings situations of trauma and depression. Usually, they look to society or gangs for guidance because belonging is important to the dysfunction of reasoning on their own is not working to make choices.Society doesn't help humans make the best choices it just gives so many choices and this creates more confusion.The other side of to this problem is the no choices just follow God's will and trust blindly that morality is in the words of the Bible.So as humans we are confused with making correct or wise choices to make better lives for ourselves and our children.We talk to strangers for answers because we don't want to appear crazy or strange we can't solve our own moral dilemmas.We really can figure out how we created moral dilemmas in the first place.What  is a moral dilemma?Most moral dilemmas involve relationships with other people.We would be okay living on an island by ourselves .That sounds funny but when we get involved with a relationship that started off wrong and doesn't work out we run for the nearest closet and shut the door to the whole world.Did we know it was wrong to choose another person who just wanted to sleep with us for sex and we get us pregnant and  then when the baby comes they didn't want to get married in the first place?Well, we kinda knew it was wrong but we were wishing and hoping that they would change after the baby came.We have created a moral dilemma and now what are we going to do?We are going to have to raise that child and confess we made a mistake and forgive yourself and the man who got us pregnant.You might want to get revenge on the man or make his life miserable that will teach him.Well, that is just another moral mistaken and you are getting deeper into more wrongs and you have to move on at some point or you get stuck in the moral dilemma.The real focus should be on the child because the child is observing your action and words and if you created hate towards the father the child will live with that trauma for many years.The best solution is to gain self-control over yourself and do your forgiveness work and show love to the child.You will have to have some conversation with the father of the child and this is for the child, not you. You need to remove your self- interest in this matter this is all about the child welfare and a mother that can do this can stop the .moral dilemma that was created.