RELATIONSHIPS ARE PASSION WARS

Breaking up is not hard to do in fact it happens without our help.The war starts with conflicts between two people who are battling issues within themselves before they even knew you.How can we understand our own issues and other peoples issues?Usually, we know ourselves because we have the same issues in every relationship and other people have had the same issues.The trust issue is the main conflict and this first battle.You see people have been rejected because of this one issue more than any other.So if we face our own trust issues by trusting ourselves before we get into a new relationship we will know how to address the other person's trust issues.If we are having conflicts inside of us we bring those conflicts to new relationships.We all have heard about baggage right.Living in the now moment requires a peace of mind and peace comes from dealing with our own issues we created.The relating is part of every relationship we have with anybody.We expect others to be just like us and this is not really what relating means.We need to make adjustments and some things give up some of our desires until we get to know what the other persons desires are also. What are we passionate about and what are the people relating to passionate about. By listening or asking other people what they are desiring in their lives we will discover conflicts.This gives us a way to deal with the battles that are hidden in their emotions.Some people say it's my way or the highway and others say it's your way or our way of doing things.The battle lines are drawn by causes in the emotional attachments to other people outside of the relationship itself.What kind of families are involved in their decisions making?How do you make choices?Somethings need to be discussed with the partner first before asking friends or family.

There seven causes for anger.

1.ongoing resentments
2.rage and uncontrollably
3.critical judgements
4.sarcastic or off color remarks
5.stress related, mood swings
6.striking back, revenge
7.walking out

All of these lead to unresolved emotional break downs.The expectations of the future depend on how you handle the anger in the relationship and after the breakup.What caused the anger issues can be done differently and reacting to everything with one of these seven causes is not the answers to the future relating or relating to a partner.Think about how your anger and emotions separate you from who you are relating to now. Do you cause more conflicts to get your way?Remember you are only hurting yourself by any one of these seven.

It is very hard to love unconditional and we have heard that we should do this.Humans and even God set conditions .Where or how did unconditional love start? Well, it sounded like a good idea but was it morally correct? Can we love ourselves without setting conditions?If we can do it to ourselves how can we do it to others?The world runs on conditions and has all try our best to love the unlovely.Where we being realistic or where we really loving regardless of the situations we were placed in such as co-dependency of giving until we couldn't give enough.Do we think we can gain the whole worlds love and still keep our own soul?We must be balanced in everything we do.Loving self as we love others.And there are conditions to how much we love ourselves and others.

GIVING AND RECEIVING /THE BALANCE

The sojourn of the soul is to give and receive or transmit and send all energies.The reasoning of giving and receiving is the input and output of information to increase knowledge which becomes wisdom and power for transcending and transformation.When the flow of these two energies is stopped the power is stopped. Choices are given in every situation to give or receive.If giving is done in every situation the human will have an emotional response to energy not given in the given.How can we be cheerful givers? It is not the motivated to receive in the giving.There is no agenda to the giving or receiving it is just done for fulfilled me of the soul.The spirit has a need to give and receive.As it important not to grieve or worry because both of these stop the flow of the spirit.Any energy of the emotions from the heart sends messages to the subconsciousness.So the human that is not balanced in their emotions is sending messages to stop either giving or receiving is not allowing the lesson to teach and spiritual growth is not occurring.The pattern keeps repeating until an affirmation of the  I am is entered into the program such as  I am a giver and receiver of all things good and bad.This allowance and acceptance create a flow of blessing in both directions the sender and the receiver.The removal of the  I should or could have done something to help or could have received the blessings.By receiving the blessing or energy of love from someone shows honor and respect to the giver. The giving is done cheerfully because of the love motivation and not done to receive. But if the giver refuses to receive the blessings of giving this cause an imbalance.

Are we cutting off our blessings?Through our thoughts, we can stop all love because we place conditions on everything because we have been programmed not to trust others or ourselves.When we allow trust in self we can release the receiving.Are we worthy of receiving? Do we question why we don't receive? Most of us want and need many things and we all need love to thrive.Start by giving unconditional love and see how that is different than just giving because you expect something in return once you do this you will trust your receiver.Many humans are either receiver or senders when it comes to using gifts and talents.The intuition will work when it is received and trusted without doubts.The brain is designed to be used and not abused.The emotions need self-control. Intentions are energy and need to flow.The belief program says"be a giver" but doesn't tell us about receiving.So we have all been imbalanced for many centuries because of this program in our subconsciousness. We can reprogram by a focus on both giving and receiving both cheerfully.

DOES ONE BAD APPLE SPOILS THE WHOLE BUNCH ?

Nature and human nature abhors a vacuum of energies that suck the life blood like a parasite an attachment that clings to repeating patterns for the purpose of dependency on the host.

Elimination is Nature's has a way of taking actions on any endangerment in its environment to grow and produce fruit and flourish for the future generations of its life continuous flow of energies.

Humans have been treating this parasite vacuum of bad negative vibration with care and kindness instead of getting rid of it when first observed to be dangerous to their personal growth.Rather than stop the process humans allow the parasite to take control over their life force to produce.

Now don't get me wrong because  I am pro-life and would not suggest getting rid of something that is producing in a very small way to the whole of the collective.  I am writing this paper with consideration and honesty and the truth that has not been told by many because of personal reasons or fears, to tell the truth about the "bad apple" that is still thriving on other people's progress to grow spiritually.

Yes, we are experiencing and taking lessons for our own growth and our connections to others of the same mindset will gather to share and encourage our brothers and sisters.When we come together in work, home, and activities we are not expecting a "bad apple" to spoil the fun and love energies we producing for inspirations purposes.

We don't want or need to stand in judgment of the "bad apple" we need to use discernment and our intuitions that were given to us a gift from the designer.Nature as an innate biology sense as humans also have a knowing built in its growth processes also.  The sense of fear or flight is a reaction we share with animals.When confronted with a physical object that appears to be a human and doesn't act with empathy or compassion is it Human? We all know the appearance is deceiving because there is nothing inside of the shell.It talks and walks but its words are like a Scorpio and will sting or strike if not allowed to spew its negative energies.No amount of reasoning or kindness or truth from the heart will work on the evil intentions of the "bad apple" the reason being it is designed to be destructive in all it does.We have all been the target of the back stabbers and control freaks in our work places and when we really are thinking we are making process on our journey they creep in like a snake and try to undermine everything we have built up.The kick the sand castles over and stomp our dreams until we don't have anything left inside of us to go on.

We have tried loving our neighbors as ourselves and even speaking kindly to those that have done us wrong.What is next and should we do it for the sake of the whole and not just ourselves?Are we all connected?Are the "bad apples" connected? There is always one that stirs of the trouble and gets others involved to create the chaos.What can a spiritual person do to stop this chain reaction?

I have had many experiences with "bad apple effect" in the work area and many stories from clients on my journey. In the classes and on the radio there will always be one that causes interferences with the group.My directness of handling these situation has improved over the years. I still need to act more quickly to prevent the negatives they bring to the group or listeners.Last night on my show  A callers who have been trolling all radio show on blog talk radio called in. I knew this caller and told her that  I heard her for three years telling the same story and asking for help with her family.She is lying and deceitful and just wants to control everyone she talks too.  This is the last time  I allow this energy on my radio show.No matter how you tell the bad apple the truth they still sting you.She didn't listen to anything  I said to her. She posted in the chat room about how rude  I was to her by telling her she was beating a dead horse and forcing a horse to drink by wanting to control her granddaughter. I knew she wasn't listening to me she never listens to the other people who she calls either.This is the same energy  I have observed in non-humans on our planet.They have no real life just a sobbed story and it is programmed to created pity.You can not get agreement from these entities only arguments and they are sharp to point out your short comings.I agree humans do make mistakes and that makes us human.Her words in the chat room "warning everyone that  I was rude and a know-it all"  I accept that I am really a' know it all" and consider that a compliment.  I know my job and have no reason not to do my job.And if  I don't know something  I am willing to learn. I see no reason to talk with somebody that doesn't listen.

 





 

THE CONSCIOUSNESS JOURNEY

In a third dimension mindset, the sojourner seeks a destination and predestination in their journey.As they set everything to one agenda of where they are going and how to get there they limited their abilities and potentials within the boundless parameters of the conscious mind. The world is focused on the physical body and its preparation of the death of the biology part and not the inner soul that is continuous of the soul.The death of the body was important to many cultures even though logically they knew that even preparation to preserve the body it would return to the elements from which it came. Mummification and burial practices were not always about preserving the body they served for the purpose of the loved ones left behind as a way of dealing with the separation in the physical connections. When the destination was usually a heaven or a hell entered the consciousness this was another way to help those left behind to cope with separation.Even with this concept is said or somewhat believe in many still can't let go of the co-dependency to the physical and accept the spiritual concepts of the living souls that have a consciousness that continues the conscious journey.  When death is not the end but a beginning of a new life and the destination is not the motivation that creates a control on the physical Earth we can't move forward as a collective consciousness.  The mindset of fear that is created is to hold death in hostage as a way that society had to operate for centuries because of those who needed something seen and not unseen.Even though most humans were told that there are more of the unseen and that the spirit lives on the ceremonies continue to go through the motions of body preparation and burial.The cost of dying has risen beyond the cost of living for many people. The population growth has grown and the death rate of abortions of unwanted babies puts everyone into fears about the moral dilemma of what to do next as cemeteries are taking up land and no place to put the bodies.We are living in the time of 'death" and the living humans are thinking about where are they going to put their bodies when it dies.With new medical advances on our planet, we are keeping our bodies longer and healthier and dying may not be the thing to worry about. We are looking at a soul or spiritual revival in the consciousness of the souls that know that it is not the body but the inner journey that holds more importance.What was the importance of the mummies? We may have thought it was about holding on to the physical for remembrance but if we look at the science and the discoveries of DNA we know now it was all about the future using the mummies to find secrets to an enteral life of the soul's journey. The writings and pictures tell many stories that we have seen on the walls of the temples and tombs.But our mindset was on the death and not the new life of the soul.Time and space are endless and what we are seeing or hearing has been repeated like a message from 'all time" of the divine to guide us through every incarnation to the freedoms of the soul.The physical will obey the spirit and the youth of the soul transforms the inward beauty of the truth of this limitless illusionary nonphysical reality will occur with the proper perceptions of the death of the body.Why do we visited a grave or pray to an unknown entity in a far away place? We are from the stars and made of stars and return to the stars it is written.Why do we look amongst the dead bodies of our loved ones or ask for some sign or messages from those that have reincarnated or gone on in the consciousness? We know in our own inner senses that life is inward and not outward.We are following the world ways and need to wake up to who we are as star seeds from other planets and this is a just way station on our journey for the lessons of a physical nature.The consciousness and the mind are not in the body.You are not in the body.You are projecting your thoughts as you create.Do these words upset you?You are a traveler and are not from this Earth.What does this phrase mean to you?" you are not of the Earth but in the Earth" not of the world but in the world.'Is this the same thing?Not my words but a quote of importance!

 

ARE WE FOLLOWING THE SPIRITUAL LEADERS ?

As children, we played follow the leader.

From the times of tribes, and gatherings of our people we inherited the consciousness roots of kinships and honoring and respected as our leaders of wisdom from the higher connection to the "one" soul spoke through them to us.Our mentors have come to us at the right divine timing and we followed their words and actions just like in our game "follow the leader" we have a knowing that resonates with our heart of the energy being transmitted and we follow.

My children know my voice and the voice comes from the same "one".

Because the words are spoken by such mentor in kindness and no judgment and harmony and peace of the mind is leading the mentor chosen by the divine to speak as the "one."

Hunger and thirst for more are the cries deep from within the soul of the student who hears with ears of the heart.And the following occurs as the vibration are healing the within longing.

Children are lead by many worldly things that glitter like gold but hold no long term value but the words from the soul that knows the heart of the "one" will fill the emptiness with joy and amazement of the journey.

The Christ consciousness of the one mind, one body, one life has returned many times in mere men and women on this plane of existence and the entities are called or chosen to speak and it is their allowance and acceptance to follow the leader within.

Edgar Cayce was such an entity chosen to be a leader to follow as he allowed the Christ consciousness within to speak through him in a trance state.Many others also spoke in Biblical times for the I am the presence and said it was coming from their hearts.Channeling was from the higher consiousness of the "one" and not lower conscious beings in the afterworld the messages were about the living and for the living, it was the living word.The leader of the tribe was appointed to speak to the great spirits of the ancestors was followed because of the leadership and allowance of higher consciousness within to guide him.

The language and words will flow with the intention to create an energetic field within the heart of the listener making the request to open the records called Akashic.The book of life recorded by an appointed angel by the "one" of higher consciousness. The writings are in the entities chosen  by divine timing of the "one" and messages resonate with the entity and the timing of their journey.All things are know by the connection of the one energy of the living words spoken.  

The techniques are different as the soul that is transmitting allows the following as the I am presence comes into their reality pushing aside and surrendering the entity of the self-identity to the channeling to be given and received through the "one".The rememebering of what was said is important to the listener as well as the channeler doing the reading because it is in the experience. Edgar Cayce's did gain information after the trance readings from the notes taken by his secretary who recorded his information.No information was lost as it also was recorded in the Akashic records from where it came from.I chose Edgar Cayce as a mentor many years ago and read the readings he gave that were in the books in the library at the ARE in Virginia Beach. As  I read each recorded reading on health and reincarnation and I was gaining knowledge from the Akashic records from the collective consciousness and the past lives of all that  I would meet on my time line have come to me on the radio and privately for years in my life's journey.Everything is a synchronicity and life has meaning beyond the physical representations of the identities we are now incarnated into we are travelers in divine timing and the "one" soul has many parts and pieces but is still one.So as Edgar Cayce was reading and going into a trance state the timing was in the now and all were present in the now.He still is connected to all that follow his words that were living words from the Christ consciousness.Greg Braden tells us about the keys to life in the energetic fields of possibilities of the consciousness and we are all connected by this consciousness.All my mentors said the same and it was my choice to allow the connection as it is for all souls.The more  I connected the dots on my journey the more information comes through my consciousness. The Christ consciousness is now moving over the waters and the face of the Earth waiting for all those willing to follow the leader.

 

WHAT DOES MEAN TO PUT GOD FIRST IN YOUR LIFE?

We have heard this spoken so many times from those that preach and teach about the God of the Bible.This sounds like religious practices and a rule or a command based on dogma from "the man's point of view " and many who choose to be on a spiritual journey have their own interpretations of the meanings of putting the source of all creation first in their lives. God is still present in the lives of His creatures He created and creation is an on going energy on this planet and the universe as science and spirituality merge with evidence and the connection to all source energy fields.The He pronoun has changed to Her as a representation of an emotional attachment to the Godhead as one source with many included in the three in one was done for purposes of joining all sources of creation.The merging and integrating of the all as a collective source of the consciousness was the removal of the separation that was predicted by all scripts that "if my people would come together" togetherness was the key that opens the door of the Christ consciousness of the one source. The identity was the thoughts of the mind of the consciousness of source. Who or what or how this happens is the question answered in this paper. Channeling the consciousness can be done by any vessel or body which is the temple of the Lord or law can allow and accept the messages from source.It is not a gender situation the body is the container and the energy is channeled through the connection of the thoughts and heart agreement to the laws.Age is not a factor nor intellectual pursuits into the all the memorization of biblical training.The choice to allow the source to channel is to put God or all energy into focus instead of person conscious thoughts patterns aside.To take on or relied upon such sources of creation to create from within the channel itself. This is to put something other than self-identity first. There is no loss of personal identity the I am is taking the place of the ego identity. The power of the  I am remains in the present thought moments to secure their identity of putting God first.This is an inner place of the  I am the power that is needed for all manifestations of the true spiritual nature.The  I am is the identity of all source and not just the one reference made by one human believing it is the creation of the first word "let there be light" light is the source of life. As darkness is the contrasting and the need for the light.There is no light outside nor darkness outside of the inner both are created within the  I am.Without the  I am present the choice is either good intent to use the light or evil intent to use the darkness.The consciousness contains all dualities for purposes of choices.When we go outside of the choices within and choose other humans to guide or give us advice we can use our inner compass of the  I am to create and manifest.We need to use discernment because we don't know if they are channeling the light or the darkness from source.What are the sources used to deceive us?Why are there others that worship evil sources?The free will is in each soul.This is why we need to be in the  I am for protection at all times.Understanding that we are creating the  I am and the others are creating am  I the ego.The answer is the  I am that  I am or am I this or that which is the mirror.

 

WHAT HAPPENS IN THE AFTERLIFE?

While listening to a presentation by Tom Campbell on his work with the famous Raymond Moody about near death experiences and the consciousness. Many of my perceptions have been confirmed when  I did my own experimenting with out of the body and contacting those that have left the body at physical death.I have communicated with these entities that were still Earth bound by request of their loved ones they were not spiritual guides or angels they were attached to the memories in the consciousness of the family member still alive.The process is called channeling the consciousness and the purpose is not for any messages but to help the grieving loved ones to let go of their loved ones to cross over and go into the light or to their next incarnation.This is the real purpose to make contact with someone who dies in the physical and is now in the afterlife or the other side.The parlor games that are still going on today in our world were going on when the consciousness was evolving from their fears of dying.Signs and messages from outside of our own consciousness come from a system made up of all our fears and superstitions that we let go of and can be considered space junk.These messages are not from our loved ones or angels or guides and certainly an evil force many have created called Satan.The purpose these attachments we created was for our own evolving as a soul. There is no destination or end point in our consciousness evolving and closure is not a possibility in a field of electromagnetic possibilities. In a three dimensional reality, we are still thinking that we need closure but in a shift in conscious awareness of the energy of each human soul, we need to observe that evolving is occurring and transition and change are required by all souls. A cycle of life and transition 'death of the physical' and the afterlife of the continuous consciousness.Understanding and knowledge of the consciousness is key to everything the human experiences on every sojourn. Science and spirituality can work together because they both have something to offer to bridge the gap of the misunderstanding of myths and superstitions.Religions have a purpose because humans need a higher form of their own conscious awareness to believe in at times of confusion of their identities.  

Why do some humans require information from their loved ones even when they have the information about what happens at the death process? This is because of the attachments in their own emotions field of the heart.They have not merged their logic in their thoughts with the heart energy. They are in need of the type of love that was provided by the loved ones that have left the Earth.The only way to replace this type of conditional love is to raise their consciousness level of understanding and remove the superstitions they have believed in.We can't get rid of the mediums or any evil intentions of those that are frauding the public.These humans are a part of the whole and are needed for those who exist on this level of consciousness.It is up to the teachers to teach those by explaining that contacting the afterlife is harmful to the consciousness of their loved ones.And it is also harmful to those that are doing the contacting.I am not going to tell anyone that it is wrong because everyone has free will to choose what they do. Holding on to a loved one through the memories can bring peace and knowing that you will always have their love with you.Please consider sending them to the light so they can go on from the Earth bound gap condition.They want you to live your life on Earth and make your own choices.I encourage you to take this message to your heart and thoughts and stop going to those that are not doing you or the services of your loved one by holding their consciousness from crossing over.

   

THE ENERGY FIELD FROM THE HEART

Keeping updated on the science of energy emitted by the human being is not an easy job but, I am a seeker of the truth.The old perceptions concerning positive thinking and the law of attraction are taking a back seat in the transmission of energy of our thoughts positive or negative is not as important as the emotions coming from our hearts.Our thoughts have to correlate with our emotions.

The powerhouse in the heart is called electromagnetic energies of the emotions or desires of our wants and needs that we intentional send or wistfully ponder as we gather our thoughts with intentions to the desires as we create a mindset in our thoughts.By saying we must have positive thinking or not to think negative thoughts are not logical to the brain. Don't we all know how hard it is to remain in a positive thought pattern?The law of attractions has many parts than just a way of thinking it has natural laws and nature must be observed also. The heart is more than a pump that supplies the body with blood it sends energy that electrifies every atom and neuron to reproduce and live. We are not just flesh and blood but walking, living transmitters and receivers of the energies from other humans hearts and the more we increase compassion and gratitude in our hearts we send our emotions into the field of possibilities to manifest our desires. This is how the law of attractions works and it is not from thoughts.We can meditate on our desires and project them on the mirror that we are reflecting as we view our inner world realities.

The information about the brain and the heart connection is the most important discovery of this century.All the self-help books told us to believe that our thinking could change our spiritual lives.The world has controlled our thoughts but not our hearts.They have unsuccessfully done everything to get us emotionally involved with doing everything they want us to do.The soul and the spirit are our emotional compass if we feel in our heart that something is not right we get cut feelings from our intuitive nature.No matter how many times you see or hear someone trying to convince you of something if your hearts not in it fully you will back away.So we have to get our emotions under control, not our thoughts.Greg Braden says,"we are all connected through the heart" not the thoughts as we were told so many times.Can we trust our own hearts? I ask many people can they trust their own gut feelings that are coming from their hearts.We certainly have heard enough songs and poetry about the heart but to change our perceptions from the new research about our power source may take more people talking or writing about it.just this morning on my face book page someone was pushing positive thinking my heart sank.What was the shift all about?  It was a shift in perceptions and it was the spiritual transformation of the wholeness not just one part but the whole. The thoughts and the heart must be in agreement for attraction to occur.The two together form a bond of the love energy that agrees with the field of possibilities.Don't just think about it get emotionally involved.