ALL SHIPS NEED AN ANCHOR TO A SOURCE.

WE ARE ALL SOULS SHIPS DRIFTING ON THE SEAS OF THE UNKNOWN WATERS OF POSSIBILITIES,

 AS WE SHIFT WITHIN OUR OWN AWARENESS OF WHO WE ARE OTHERS AROUND US  MAY WANT US TO REMAIN THE SAME BECAUSE OF THEIR INSECURITIES.

WE WILL ENCOUNTER RELATIONSHIPS AND FRIENDSHIPS ON OUR VOYAGES ACROSS THE INFINITE BOUNDARIES OF THE SHIFT IN OUR OWN CONSCIOUSNESS.

WE ARE HEADING FOR SOME ROUGH TROUBLED WATERS THAT ARE  COMING FROM THE LOWER ENERGY OF THOSE WE  THOUGH HAD OUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART IN OUR SUCCESS TO BECOME WHO WE ARE.AND WE ARE FINDING THEY DON'T KNOW WHO WE REALLY WERE.

IT REALLY ISN'T THEIR FAULT WE DIDN'T EXPRESS WHO WE WERE BECAUSE WE DIDN'T KNOW OURSELVES UNTIL WE SET OUR DREAM INTO MOTION.


WE WANT SUPPORT FOR OUR DREAMS AND NEW CHOICES ON OUR JOURNEY FROM THOSE WE LOVE AROUND US.

HOW CAN WE MEND OR REPAIR THE GAPS WE HAVE CREATED AND IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS OR FRIENDSHIPS?

The words trust and honesty are two good anchors in all relationships.Everything starts with one person in the relationship and this responsibility is with the higher conscious spiritually minded person.Usually, it is one who has drifted and broken the codependence created by the lower conscious person. But,also remember the higher conscious person allowed this to happen. So some forgiveness goes with the situation always.The anchor is the source or some call it,God.The higher creativity spiritual guided partner usually chooses relationships to help those of lower consciousness. The relationship may last as long as the codependency last.But there comes a time to go inward and seek their own life free from the burdens of always helping others first and leaving their own dreams and desires on the back burner.The inner calling awakens them to their purpose to serve God is to help others that will not become dependent on them and still relate but not on a personal level of attachments. In the Bible, there were many that didn't get married because they served God. One script says,"it is better not to marry"Why would this be in the Bible if it was not important for us to read it? Humans have a need and a want and a desire.Needs are usually physical but can also be spiritual "as a need to study to make thyself approved"but all words have a good or bad reason.The need just to have a warm body so you feel whole and don't want to be alone is a selfish need.We have all done this and hurt ourselves in the process.These experiences are part of our growing up spiritual.Our wants are very materialistic by nature and we feel empty and fill up on things because we think they bring happiness.But, when we get enough it just doesn't seem to be the answer either. So the last try at being who we are usually is our desires of our heart.This should have been our first choice but, we followed the world's way.Now that we made a choice to follow God or source we have to clean up the messes we made.The things around us that are cluttering up our space and the people who are clinging to us for their own survival instead of standing on their own.We try to help them the only way we knew to help them but they developed  a codependency and used our energies and can make choices on their own because they didn't do their own lessons we did the lessons for them too many times.We need to forgive ourselves and forgive those that will turn on us for the break in the bonds we created.Each ship must have an anchor to God.Each person in the relationships must have a personal relationship with God or higher source.As the two becomes one through the relationship to God.It is the responsibility of each to take their own experiences and do the inner work or they won't grow spiritually. 
I write from my own experiences from my journey and share because of love for all my brothers and sisters because we are one.I can not do your homework students  I can only teach you to fish for yourselves so you will take care of yourself.Remember all that we can do is to love and give kindness to others that are struggling with the separation of codependent  relationships.You might be the one that is the lower energy and need to understand the reasons you accepted this type of relationship.That was part of my story and I  understand how you feel and know you will survive because  I did it with God's help.I couldn't have seen that at the time it was happening and  I don't blame anyone but myself and I have forgiven the ones that helped me become depend on them for help instead of telling me  I needed God's help. I have forgiven myself for not turning to God for help. We can clear the slate and start fresh today and live our lives and complete the wholeness process our inner desires of our hearts that God placed there when we were born.